'I have gone from INFJ (shy; moody kid from birth) -> INFP -> ENFP -> ENFJ -> ambivertNFj/P (now) Is it true that typing problems between 'I' & 'E' come from not having a stable home life?? I read...
Contradictory as ever. Thank you though! I appreciate it.
If you have a chance, what does your book say about which types get along or not w 4? 0:)
Thanks! I know sp 9s come in many shapes and sizes but the potential ISTJ partner (my dad's type probably) I would not go for. The ENFP/ISTJ example is apt because I'm ambivert but leaning ENFP....
Hi, I'm wondering what a type 4 (more of a 4w3) would do well with romantically? What would type 4 not get along with? I think I'm not compatible with 1, 4, 6 (at least this many) My dad is a...
Based on some helpful members of this site, I realized maybe I'm not an INFP as I had thought. Had tested as and thought I was INFJ for a few years before that, so I'd like to know my proper type as...
Hi! I think that is a good plan but a former ardent religious zealot, I am not now and feel hypocritical going to church. :( I wish very much that I could do that though because I think only people...
Why the drama? What! You are a unique man, Termus123. I, for one, would be so red/ angry/ BYE if someone did that. It sounds like online dating where people list random traits and no one is...
You're right! Spending time with healthy, supportive friends has helped me a lot in the last no-dating months. It's really been great and I'm expanding in what I want to, though still struggle with...
Hi! Thanks for the comment and vicious circle is true. Thanks! So INFPs can meet Es- yay! Glad it's going well. Hi! Thank you for sharing such a detailed, personal ideas for love and growth....
Hi! Thanks for the comment and vicious circle is true. Thanks! So INFPs can meet Es- yay! Glad it's going well. Hi! Thank you for sharing such a detailed, personal ideas for love and growth....
Aww this is great! Thank you. I will keep on being me instead of changing/warping to fit some imagined person. Yes, I can see it too! And yes even if I succeed short-term trying to cover it...
LOL! Good to see I'm not alone. :] Why do you say ISFP is bad? I think they are bad for INFP though yeah.
Just a *little bit* hehe :wink: Based on the posts, I guess. It seems harder for people to offer something about attracting another person. Alright, any suggestions?
angelfish Thanks too. Oh I do volunteering and I have never met some in this arena. Oh well, glad it works for you all. Yes, I'm starting to understand something this week: I can be whoever I am...
I'm sorry to hear that. :( Are INFPs and/or 4s prone to attracting and staying in abusive relationships. Well 3 years is a long time to have baggage. That's frightful. I can relate. Age 18-21 (2-year...
There are percentages and if you are close to 50-50, it seems like you are not so polar. Your kitty avatar is pretty cute btw. People used to say dating is supposed to be good, healthy,...
Yeah, I combat my fear of abandonment by engaging in many romantic relationships at the same time. Something that is incredibly hard to break but I need to be monogamous if I indeed want to find...
^Keepin' it real. Yup, I am just frustrated that I don't heal. You are right. You are right. P.S. 3.5 months is a hell of a long time for me.
Yes, sometimes I don't know if alone or with someone in the imperfect world is better because it needs to be an extraordinary person. Only found one and he was codependent, temperamental, phobic,...
I am researching how to find a healthier, serious, fantastic partner. Where? When? How? Starting as an unhealthy INFP and 4w3. 22 years old. Introverted, idealistic, perfectionistic means I...
Hi surgery, ISTJ says duty fulfiller. Yes, that may be him but an atypical one. Interesting about INFP as empathetic yet self-absorbed. I grew up with two foreign parents in a community that...
Dear surgery, I love it! What you say is very interesting and, yes, Europeans seem to work to live, especially the French and I'd say Spanish fit into this as well. I hope I will be able to relate...
Yes, living is hard some times. :ninja: How would I do that-- make an Enneagram forum under a random subject listed above? New at this. Thanks for reaching out. Forums seem safe esp when everyone...
Yes, I had a classmate of around the same age as me start up a discuss about his therapy that cured him of some big issues including romances. (He started on this subject himself.) 3 years really...
FPx Thanks for the lemurs! Yes, I am terribly afraid of being boxed up in pointless work. I have had internships at corporate offices where I felt like a small ant & it made me so stressed...
Hi guys, thanks for the replies. And it's nice to know another INFP 4. ElliCat Right now am in a bad (worse) state because of anxiety about wanting to take lots summer classes and stress...
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I feel the same way as treehugger. I graduated last year magna cum laude and I feel hostile toward technology at times though I felt like I HAD to get a smartphone upon graduation.
I am feeling anxious, depressed, lonely, no romance whatsoever, hateful of my critical, demanding father (this is a very bad feeling to feel) and need to get away so I'm moving to Spain in August. I...
I think INFPs are too open. I am. I don't take time to make sure a person is a safe person because I need to talk about my feelings, problems, emotional upset. Do you have this issue? Are you just...
Yo. I am new as of today. As an INFP, just as I like to reassure others, I like to be reassured that: Yes, this will get better. INFP symptoms ...I'm trying to research how to change your...
Yes, I feel this way. Since I was a small child I always thought of the *future* when I could *finally* change my appearance. I'm female and have been obsessing about shaving my head for about 5...'
