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Diplomats ENFJ

Charismatic and inspiring leaders, able to mesmerize their listeners.

'I want to know how you feel about INTPs. Actual INTPs, or the idea of INTPs, if you haven't met any.

Ten million hugs to all. :) So many amazing conversations held here in my absence! *vows to never leave again.* But really. A lot of what has been written here recently is terribly...

Facebook has such a way of emphasizing others' errors in cognition that become obvious.... It leads me to wonder why I'm friends with many of those people, but then I remember that people are more...

Mmmmhm. :) Same here. I've been wondering lately about the E/I, but I think it definitely just has to do with how much I need/want company around me, regardless how the time together is spent...

Hahah, I love the thinking that's going on in here, about this topic. :) Very excellent conversation, and thank you all for participating and indulging my interest. :) This has been very enlightening...

Someone creates chitchat thread on ENFJ forum. *all ENFJs vigilantly await for other types to wander in an start conversations.*

Was it an ENFP? ;) ...I've caught so many of them texting or looking around for shiny objects while giving me the mid-syllable mm hmm's. :) Not all, and not always, but many, and...

I am so tired of the extraverts are energy-sapping sentiment. We aren't all batshit, or very loud and outgoing, even. :dry:

On topic-- do you guys find that you get on better with extroverts online?

Also-- I am with iamken on this one. Y'all sure do type a lot. ;) I think it's an introvert thing rather than an Fi thing, though. My INTP SO (Fe) is the same way. INTPs and INFPs actually have...

[/B] On the contrary-- I think my initial interactions do begin with self-focus. It really depends on how I'm feeling, though. If I'm having an insecure kind of day, or if this someone is...

Things with hands. Yes.

I attribute the credibility of my advice (to follow) to my experience with dating, housing and keeping an INTP fed for a little longer than two years, now: While I find that INTPs are rare...

Your ability to be candid is refreshing. :) We all have things that are unhealthy about us.

I should clarify my rambles-- 1) by lie, I mean, be less valid than the next or be less reliable or be misconstrued. 2) by some INTPs are different from others, I mean vastly, in a...

Effy & Iamtp: Interesting thoughts about INTPs behaving like INFPs, from both of you. I think I've seen this happen in INTPs before (currently... <_< ). I think some INTPs are different from...

The cognitive functions test. -- different from MBTI?? Where is this magic?

Whoa-- so much happened here in 3 days! I just want to take the opportunity to make the observation: 30 pages since 5-25!! I feel like I missed out. :)

This.

Might be an enneagram type 3 thing. I can relate. I'm ENFJ 6,3,?.

I think you asked what makes ENFJs happy. Other people make us happy.

Histoire Soo... How is this all unfolding? Did you make a move yet? ;)

Other people. Ha. ;)

We're not all the same-- so no, there is no guarantee that if he likes you, he will be quieter than usual. Also, don't confuse introversion with a lack of confidence-- they are not the same...

I think this is odd behavior for an ENFJ. The behavior you're describing sounds introverted. Maybe he's intimidated?

I can't speak for everyone else, but in personal experience-- I am always thinking, and even something overthinking, even during personal interactions. I can seem absorbed in conversation, but...

No! I absolutely wouldn't be overwhelmed, and I think that if this person is how you explain him to be, I can relate and would even do things the way you plan to do. I know what you mean when you...

Just got over the same thing. Left eye still hurts. Rawr.

Well, I'm just going to be honest with you. Someone walks like a cat, who falls into fits of rage only to burst out laughing seconds later... Sounds awfully immature or unstable, and possibly...

Re # 1: As someone in the field, it's true. :( I am constantly at odds with myself for buying into this, at all. I've asked others about it in the forum, but I don't think many people are in...

Baiting. I approve, then. :)

This would bug me, too. The answer for me, would be: after a while, you can't make it up. Just stop doing it. Period. That's it.

Heheheheh.... And idk, I'd say I'm pretty organized and scheduled. That's the nature of the J. That said, I don't think this has anything to do with sex drive. Like lofty said, it probably...

Idk about how well sex and food correlate with personality type, but maybe with each other? That'd be an interesting thing to research!

I also disagree. I think it's simply more obvious when extraverts are spastic or obnoxious. The nature of extraversion is merely that feelings are divulged more easily and processed externally...

Hahaha. ^_^ someone sounds excited. You forgot to mention the pony. Also-- you might want to change your wording a bit. If he screws me, he needs the protection. ... <_< I'm sorry, you...

6-7 : This is a blanket statement. People run the gamut from E to I, and it is not black or white. You'll find that plenty of extraverted persons prefer to spend time at home or with one or two...

Hahaha. A connoisseur of rejection. ^_^ Playing dumb is always the go-to. But as women, we tend to get it shoved in our faces eventually. :)

It's totally possible. I'd send pictures, but that might be awkward for my poor INTP. :)

This is an intense story! I can't wait to see what happens for you. :) I hope you run into him again. Keep in mind that INFP/ENFJ interactions can be weird. What you have going on in your head might...

Kitty.diane -- this is so true. My SO said pretty much this when I demanded to be introduced two years ago. Nbd, it won't change my opinion, why is this a thing. Once he realized both how...

Do tell. :) I'm intrigued, and happen to own an INTP. ;] Fire when ready.

This is adorable. :) Perhaps he was also conflicted about why you two were having interactions like this. Typically, if we're curious, we're not shy about approaching someone, but don't expect...

I can't speak for everyone so I'll speak for myself... 1. What signs does an ENFJ give away when attracted?/ What do you do when you're attracted? It depends on how much information I have about...

If you read your link, you'll see that the extinguishment partner of the INFP is actually the ENFP.

^ I love Japanese literature! Is this something I should look into?? Maybe we should share our favorite books, too. ^_^ On that note, one of my favorites is a novella by Banana Yoshimoto:...

Sometimes there's an effect of being too wholesome that isn't an intriguing or challenging enough factor for young boys. This will change as your friend gets older. :) Tell her absolutely not to...

I'm going to say this as a word of caution: Online surveys are the least reliable method of taking a poll. Two big reasons: 1) you don't know if the person answering the question is who they...

This was terrifying. :<

Thank you for sharing!!! She's beautiful. :))'