'This doesn't even sound like they ARE an ENFJ to me. Yes, we have a bad rep for being manipulative at times, but this sounds WAAAY out of the ballpark for us. I would definitely say that these...
I agree! Here is an interesting quote regarding ENFJ's satisfaction in general and with other ENFJ's from oddlydevelopedtypes.com, The best we can say is that one study found that female...
It's a little upsetting, but I live with 3 other people and we are making sure we lock all the doors all of the time.
You are likely right. Just funny to think of them taking it because they wanted to play video games. Thanks, that is really sweet! I will be ok though, and get one soon enough.
Eeeep! Is it important that it has a beard? :wink: Other than the elephant, it looks like most ENFJ's (so far) relate to birds or cats. Interesting...keep 'em coming!
I did loose my saved games. Very sad about that. A PS4 is $400! I don't have that kind of money to spend on a gaming system right now. I will probably get another PS3 after my next pay check...
I completely agree! Respect and trust are vital. Hugs! On a quite random other topic: My PS3 was stolen from my house today. They rifled through some of my drawers, but didn't take anything else....
Wolves are wonderful in many ways! It is very fitting that you have Arya as your avatar! (Poor Nymeria.)
Supposedly there is a huge satisfaction rate in relationships with 2 ENFJ's. I don't think I have ever even met another ENFJ in real life, but possibly... Have any of you been in a relationship...
The elephant post by littlebear (Thanks!) has got me thinking about spirit animals and if there is a pattern among ENFJ's. Do you have a spirit animal and if so, which one? I have always felt...
I definitely relate to elephants! Many of these pictures make me go AWWWWW!
I am fully aware that I do not need to sit there and listen to him and sometimes I do cut it short and leave if he starts going on and on. However, he is my dad and I don't see him very often (3...
I just finished The Slow Regard of Silent Things and loved it! I have a sneaky suspicion that some people will also love this novella and some will hate it. Cards on the table, I am already a...
I love all of the Studio Ghibli movies! My fave is Howl's Moving Castle. I don't think many people have seen, The Cat Returns, but it is a great one too!
My dad is an ENTJ (I am 90% sure...10% an ENTP) and I love him, but he drives me nuts with seeming to have no clue about where I am emotionally in my life. Now, keep in mind that I am in my 30's...
I think it's a bit contradictory that it says I am narcissistic for SLOAN and then not self absorbed for Accommodating. Oh well. Interesting that it says stressed and rushed. I do feel like I...
Goodnight! Sleep well and dream of beautiful places and people!
I definitely prefer having sex when I am in love with my partner and they are in love with me. I don't think love is necessary to enjoy sex, but for me I don't see the point in wasting my time on...
All teasing aside. My oldest friend is an INTJ and I have been seriously dating an INTP for more than 2 years now. I adore NT's! REALLY and truly. I can definitely see the communication issues...
They pick on us because they are smart asses. Also because they secretly love us. ::Muhahaha!::
Talks a lot. Will Hug You.
My 2 cents: Sounds like you are an INFJ to me, but do keep in mind that if you are going through a tough time in your life right now then that might be changing your answers to the tests a bit. ...
Well, thanks for saying we are awesome! That is certainly a nice start (flattery will get you...a smile and a wink) to a friendship. I recently realized that I have a lot of introvert friends, but...
To me it sounds like a big time immaturity issue. Sounds like she's acting more like 18 than 23, but everyone matures differently. I can tell you that I was never that inconsiderate (I am pretty darn...
277010277018277002 It's my ENFJ Face! The 3rd pic is clearly the best!
Short answer: Yes. Give it time and don't give up on relationships. I have had to remember over the past few months that ENFJ's feel things <i>intensely</i> and not all types are that way or are...
@ cali Awww INTP's, how I adore you! So, first of all let me say that I have been in a relationship with an INTP for more than a year and we are going strong. You sound really similar to him...
ENFJ http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2yWZb3zXiA
You have trouble singing along to most songs on the radio because you feel the emotion in the song and it chokes you up!
My username is from an e.e. cummings poem and also reflects that I am rather complicated...
George Bailey from It's a Wonderful Life!
Finished Elantris by Brandon Sanderson about a week ago. I am currently without a book due to Christmas shenanigans and preparations. I highly recommend Elantris, though! Especially if you like...
Blue, Violet, Yellow This was an interesting test! :)
I am frustrated with giving and giving and not getting back! It is ridiculous how the people in my life think that I will always be there for them, but they are so oftentimes not there for me when I...
I agree that the eyes are a part of easy recognition, but I think the most tell tale sign is that we are truly interested in others and have an uncanny ability to sense emotions, even in strangers. ...
Any sci fi/ fantasy fans out there? The main character Raoden in the Sci Fi book, Elantris by Brandon Sanderson. I recently read this book and about 3 quarters of the way through was struck by...
Honestly...those things totally turn me on!
It can be very, very difficult to trust and to make yourself vulnerable to another person. I think that is always going to be difficult (it still is for me!), but you will never experience love...
Awww! That makes me sad to think that we are all settling. Speaking as a self described hopeless romantic who is 33 this year and married for more than 10 years...I both understand where you are...
Happy Halloween ENFJ's (and everyone)! I thought it would be fun to find out if the ENFJ's are dressing up in costume or not and what your costume is, if so? For myself, I am waaaay behind...
I have definetely been called a hopeless romantic, and I can see how NF's would be the most likely temperament to be romantics. I think this is because of our high ideals and our focus on the...
I would have to echo the other ENFJ's on this one! My #1 thing that makes me feel loved is time spent together doing something we enjoy together or just relaxing (and not when he is on a video game)....
I am currently obsessed with the song Sleep Alone by Two Door Cinema. I don't use iTunes. The majority of the time though...I mosty listent to music in my car and on my phone. I have pretty...
Very good points! I think sometimes he is Waaaayyyy too much in his head. Also, I have to say...doesn't EVERYONE like sex? I am definetely the dominant one in our relationship in that way and he...
:laughing: Yes I have tried that and it works well! What I think works even better though is just being me and appreciating him for himself. I think my initial worry was partly fueled by his...
I have a Master's in Psychology. I love helping people and learning how they tick :cool:
It is my personal experience that any ENFJ and ESTJ relationship is going to need A LOT of blunt communication to work. It is difficult at times even then, at least it has been for me. I think this...
I am left of center. In the US right now I think that both sides are basically close to the middle, but both want to say the other is far to the opposite side. We really need more than just a...
Thanks for the warm welcome everyone! I will definetely take you up on that cappuccino. I loooove coffee!
I think that Sensors in general are more practical and down to earth than are iNtuitives and this is why we clash at times. I know that personally, the disconnection really drives me nuts! Sensors...'
