this is such a catch 22
I'm here! Although, I'm quite the terrible ESTJ-- my Fi developed so rapidly recently I might as well be a feeler...
Yikes. I do not want power...
Thank you SO SO much. This is what I had planned to do, and I spent time trying to see it from his perspective and all your thoughts were what I was thinking: consistency. As an ESTJ, once I can...
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Thank you for your help in advance. <3 I had been dating an ESFJ since September. I've never felt this way about someone before even all my long-term bfs. I wasn't myself in this relationship....
We're very direct, open, and we hate dancing around things. We like things to proceed in a very step-by-step fashion. We always like to know where we stand with people and will tell you how we feel...
EXACTLY THIS. I let other people lead and do things until things become chaotic then I take over because I can't handle the downward spiraling of chaos.
My best friend is an INFJ, we've been besties for 12 years now. So just from my experience, the relationship is great! We've never fought or got into an argument. *knock on wood* My aunt is also an...
Hmm... Perhaps you can try being less talkative? I've learned to listen a lot more and practice being more introverted. It's really not necessary to always say what you think/feel. One of my goals...
Not sure-- but I really like Aziz Ansari humor. I tend to like things that are relevant to what I'm going through. TV/Movies that make me laugh: Brooklyn 99, Fresh Off the Boat, The Goldbergs,...
lol. I wonder if it's because I'm a female ESTJ and my interactions with male INFP has never happened the way you described. Perhaps, gender roles plays into this.
I either write in my journal (usually realizations/processing, not usually mundane day-to-day task things) or just thoughts or quotes or poetry. Really depends on my mood. Sometimes one form of...
Recently started dating an ESFJ guy. Everything has been super easy and fun. He embodies all the characteristics I'm looking for. He's been very open/honest about the fact that he got out of a 6 year...
Thank you for asking first of all. I have a really weird one-- not so typical of ESTJ, I think. More so like an ENFP haha! 1. dinner 2. shower + brush teeth/floss 3. lotion + face moisturizer...
Is that a deal breaker?
this is everything.
I don't want to make assumptions for everyone, but in my personal experience, yes. In my life I've noticed: ENxPs tend to be more fluid and in open relationship/poly situations. NF types tend to...
What do you guys do at night after dinner/before bed? What does your night routine look like? Do you have a bedtime snack? Floss? Do you read?
This. :)
I've never been withdrawn and uncommunicative! How interesting!!
Communication with INFPs have always been very easy for me. We exchange ideas and converse like there's no tomorrow. Although I have to say, I've been misunderstood by INFPs that don't know me very...
Where do you ISFPs hide tho? o.O Haha... I've only ever met one ISFP, so I can't really tell you-- BUT I'm curious as well.
Definitely not. I would never forget if I was romantically interested. Plans/scheduling is REALLY important to ESTJs.
Hell no. I think we're one of the most direct personality types. I find it really difficult to not voice how I feel. I also find it very difficult to omit/hide things.
For me personally: Restlessness - This usually happens when I'm stuck in a group setting or having to converse with people that I cannot find common ground with (Ex: differing tastes in music that I...
I would say we would be one of the most reliable types to stay in a long distance relationship. Once we make a commitment to something we tend to stick with it-- however, that's ONLY after we have...
I think it's much easier if the female is ISTP and the male is ESTJ. The other way doesn't work nearly as well.
Interestingly enough, I'm an ESTJ, got completely swept off my feet by an INFP after a break up with my ex of 7 years. I don't think this only applies to ESTJ, I think it applies to everyone--...
double post -_-
INFP TMLT text you every single day but never make actual plans
whoa yum
INFJ! TMLT: Fall in love and realize they aren't in love
lol omg. hm... ENTP TMLT pretend they don't care but really care a lot
I can't speak for him, but as an ESTJ, I can explain how it works for me. You have to pass our logic test FIRST before we will ever develop feelings for you. These checkpoints all have to turn...
hahaha!
Do any of you meet someone and automatically know what type they are just based off the feeling you get? I met an INFP friend last year who reminded me so much of my INFP cousin, and I couldn't...
Coffee blended with coconut oil + ghee. It's high in fat. SUPPOSEDLY good to start off the day with high energy.
NUTELLLLLLAAAAAAAA! As for the coffee conversation-- I've been drinking coffee drinks (like Philz mint mojitos or lattes), and I'm just intaking too much unnecessary sugar. Plus I don't want to...
Yep. I don't understand that either. ESTJ/ISTP doesn't work when it comes to communication at all. I was with an ISTP for 7 years. I never once felt heard really. I just accepted it. And it confused...
I LOVE green tea! I'm also partial to earl grey with milk + honey. Do you like earl grey?! My INFP cousin makes it for me a lot whenever we are having our endless conversations about life, and it...
OH COFFEE! I really should ween myself off coffee tho tbh! >.< I want to meet every type! I've never met an ISFP, so naturally I am SO curious! :)
HA! The irony...
Oooooh... *stuffs face* SAUCEYYY!
Hi ISFPs. I'm dropping in to say, hello! Hope that's alright. I've never met one of you in real life, and I want to! So this is my compromise at the moment. And to the lovely 2 ISFPs that invited...
I will come join you guys for a bit! Thank you for the invite! ^_^ I do wonder where can I find 3D versions of you... hmmm...
How does that look? Is it draining energy? I could never find common ground with ISTP except only when doing things or solving a problem. I find them to be lacking in emotional depth.
What does this mean about INFP/ESTJ? I've known for a while we have the same functions in opposite directions, and I'm super close to both my INFP cousins, and recently one of my newer but super...
Where can I find ISFPs?
This is very true. ESTJ almost have an inherent need to know where we stand with people so we are willing to be completely direct and check-in. Not in a weird/obsessive way, but as a way of avoiding...
