'I'm a 3w2. I identify with it completely.
Like: Responsible, intelligent, a commanding presence, competence, assertive, adventurous spirit and a zest for life and learning Annoy: doormat, whiners, martyrs, drug addicts, people who...
You cast a very interesting perspective on the situation. I hadn't thought of the pain of not opening up to someone. For so very long, I have had a brick wall up around my heart, not truly ever...
Sygma I'm trying to get over this. I've never encountered someone who would do this to another person. I feel like something is very broken inside me. It will be a long time before I will ever...
Thank you for all your kind words. I found out recently that it was all a lie... she isn't even sick.
You were right... it was all a lie.
I recently found out he completely lied. His ex isn't sick. I haven't spoken to him but I've met some people who know his family. I've never met anyone who would fabricate such a lie. Thank...
I was recently in a relationship with an ENFP. I thought he was amazing and that everything was great. I was obviously wrong. He ended our relationship with a story that made him look like a...
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For those who think ESTJ's are devoid of emotion, they should read my posts. We can care very deeply and can fall apart, sob and weep. It doesn't happen often, but it does happen. If...
wow, that's very direct, which I appreciate. May I ask you to elaborate on the the thought process that is driving your answer. I just want to wrap my head around it. I have a need to understand...
I've have to put this in a box and walk away. It's destroying me, I'm a wreck and absolutely devastated. I've texted twice this week just to say I'm thinking about him, he had replied to say thanks...
In all honesty 2 months is a still very new fresh relationship. I'm not sure how he's going to handle that. If he pulls away know that it's not you. I have sent him 2 texts this last week just...
I have pondered this all day, I have read this book countless times to my children. I can absolutely appreciate the reference to this book, thank you for the insightful post.
I felt like I was a casualty of her cancer but a good friend pointed out that I can be an admirer of what an amazing man he truly is. I have experienced an exceptionally stressful event in my life...
Thank you for asking how I am doing, I am a devastated wreck. I am usually capable of keeping my emotions under control but not right now. I am usually a rock but you are right in that we can be an...
I was dating a wonderful man for 2 months when he found out his exwife and mother of his children has breast cancer. They were married 20 years and divorced a little less than a year. She never...
My favorite subject has always been science. I also love history. I loathe English. I'm really fast with practical math, almost like I have a calculator in my brain but, advanced math is difficult...
You are right that ESTJ's sometimes do this, especially when someone isn't living up to what I think is their full potential. I'll consciously work on this. This man has such an accomplished career...
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I would never trick someone, I'm just curious to find out what really drives them so we can find enjoyable common ground.
I just met a wonderful ENFP this week. We went to lunch, immediately started a spirited conversation, talked for 90 minutes straight and never even ordered food. I only left because I had an...
I second that, tried it and just about lost my mind!
If I do, the only people who experience it are my children. I'm pretty much all business with everyone else.
In real life, I love a genuine hug from someone who cares about me. On the forum, I think a virtual hug is just stupid. I see absolutely no point in it. Just my opinion...
In the beginning, it would be fun. But when real life comes in to play, the ESTJ would be all about getting things done and facing the hard realities of life. I would work 3 jobs to solve a...
I talked to him last week. The conversation lasted 3 hours, I finally had to end it. He asked why and I was finally able to tell him the truth, that he abandoned me during the most difficult time...
I have been trying to muster the strength all day to talk to him about the situation. I think that I am going to have to put it in a letter. I am so frustrated with myself, I am so decisive in...
I think a month sounds reasonable. What a sweet touch to buy him his favorite snack.
He would never go to counseling. Thx for the suggestions though, I'm a firm believer in the benefits of therapy.
We don't have children together. I have 4, my ex husband lives out of state. I have been evaluating situations when he has set very clear, selfish boundaries about expectations of his time.
He is very intelligent, Master's degree, and very good at his career. He lives in my home. My life has been very complicated this year. I guess in part I was trying to maintain as much stability...
I am an ESTJ female and have been involved with an INFP for 5 years. We have lived together for 3. It is not working, I don't understand why he does things the way he does. He frustrates me at...
One of my sons is an estp. He has a lot of qualities that I admire. I have a great deal of respect for who he is.
Thanks! I'll have to pick your brain on interacting with infp males. I feel like I can't have serious hard conversations with him. He falls apart, can barely formulate a sentence and calls in sick...
Lol, me a tattoo? Never. Thanks for the welcome!
I'd love to chat with you. I saw your post to another Estj a few minutes ago, you asked if we were serious. Yes we are serious, driven, focued, goal oriented, concerned with doing the right thing. ...
I'm the same, once I come to my decision I'm done.
My children joke about me being a Russian Czar. They have only seen me cry a handful of times. I am Fiercely protective. Life has thrown a lot of adversity at me... I put it in it's place and have...
Ask me directly, but be prepared for a truthful answer. I appreciate people who get right to the point and don't waste my time. I am very calm in chaotic, stressful situations. You would want me...
I've never met an ENFP, sorry I can't help.
Interesting, I have always gotten along better with guys as well. I think I identify with male stereotypes... protector, provider, independent. I'll study ISTJ's and INTJ's and see if I can find...
I agree, actions mean everything!
I like people who are intelligent and strong. I just love an Alpha.
I have had a 5 year relationship with an INFP. you summed up years of frustration in 1 post. We were wonderful friends before we started dating. I enjoy his company on a friendship level but I...
Finally, someone who understands me! I love this forum.
My name is Marlene, female ESTJ. I've been an ICU RN for 20 years. I found this forum recently and now realize why my only true regrets were never joining the military or going to law school. I...
I enjoy a variety of music, thanks to my ISFP son. Top 40, Indie Rock, Jazz and my favorite is classical with a twist like the Piano Guys. I think the sound of the cello is heavenly.
Female Blonde I wear my hair up in a twist, never a pony tail. Hazel eyes and glasses Classic elegance/ Ann Taylor, pearl earings favorite color blue lipstick and mascara natural nails,...
So glad to hear another woman say something like that. I think I descended from an Amazon Warrior Princess, I'm always ready to pick up a shield and spear to defend the weak and punish the evil...'
