I find users with Fi and Ti quite attractive. I don't understand how someone with Fe can actually be attractive? Fe makes people focus on the other person's needs and stuff and that makes them appear...
Haha. I really don't think I can stand another like this one. But yeah, I'm thankful too that you could give me such an accurate perspective. I wasn't able to let go because I didn't know if I was...
I did. I stopped completely. It'll take me a while to heal, haha. I wouldn't have considered this perspective in a million years. It makes so much sense. I know this was stupid, but I had...
I have been frank with her from the beginning. What you say makes a lot of sense. I just stopped talking or replying to her messages completely now. Thanks. I guess I came to the right temperament to...
Thanks.
Hey, guys, I met this ISFP(not N) who didn't want a relationship because she said that her past ones had hurt her. We ended up staying friends and I didn't mind that. But one day, she sent me a...
Hey, guys, I met this ISFP who didn't want a relationship because she said that her past ones had hurt her. We ended up staying friends and I didn't mind that. But one day, she sent me a text...
Haha. Each of those is the equivalent of running a marathon for me.
I was watching this kid's show called The Last Airbender. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=02FkMr21xOA A guru teaches the kid that there are seven chakras and that they all flow into each other...
I feel that, sometimes, even if our intuition is right 90% of the time, we never know when we're wrong because we cannot perceive how we can be wrong. I've been in the grip of Se for a long time and...
I'm not an NT, but if anyone's curious. 1. I'm usually aware of my environment and I don't speak more than I need to. But I do meet the occasional interesting person and get carried away in...
Wow. A lot of good advice on this thread.
I can relate to this a lot. I think it's because we naturally tend to place value on things that are physically beautiful. I don't know if it's the same for you, but I tend to categorize things based...
Ah. Okay. I see it now. I've made quite a people uncomfortable by projecting my idealistic view of them, on them. Focusing on things that makes us happy instead would make relationships more...
Thanks for this. This is pretty much me right now and I guess I need to grow emotionally. But sometimes, I can't help it, because I tend to lose interest in life when there isn't something...
Haha, I'd like to know that too.
I've noticed that my life tends to revolve around the person I like. Everything I do, has something related to it. If I watch a movie for instance, I try to pick up things which might impress them....
Glad to help :happy: I think that should be fine, I have a feeling you might manage it well.
I think you would be helping her a lot. I usually get a rush when I talk about my pent-up feelings and it gets quite intense and uncontrollable inside. But that state has made me bond like crazy with...
She is lucky to have you. I'm still going through a similar phase and can identify a lot with her. It's quite hard to express who we truly are, because we're scared about how people will perceive...
This is from my perspective of temperaments. Feel free to add whatever you feel and correct me wherever I might be wrong. The four temperaments: The guardians, artisans, idealists and rationals....
Welcome. It made a huge difference for me too. Hope to see you in our forums :)
Haha, at least that helped clear my doubts if I was an INTJ. :) :) thanks
That would be the super power.
I think I'm pretty sure now that I'm not Si because I really really hate repetition and routine. I find them absolutely mind numbing and usually escape from activities like that.And I usually get...
I think INFPs smile from the inside. INFJs reflect other people's smiles most of the time.
I'm not sure why. The combination gives me a feeling of something that has been untouched for a long time and looking at it could tell me about the people who lived here and the type of life they...
Haha, namaste to you too :) and let me know if you ever need help with anything. I will be glad to help too.
Ditto here.
Haha, me too. I think it's because I could always tell what they were planning next and would frustrate them by blocking them XD XD.
Haha, thanks for looking into my post. https://www.flickr.com/photos/alco251/21067616135/ I tend to like pictures like these because they tend to calm me. The mix of old metal and nature always...
That's true. I just wish that there would be someone to reciprocate the same way. I'm pretty much in the same boat too I guess. You have been invaluable to me :) :)
Hmm. Should I post more pictures descriptions to make sure?
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What if you try to know if you're a dominant judger or a perceiver? That might help clear things up a bit.
Haha, this is exactly how I feel. Not to sound like a dreamer, but I wouldn't want anything else if I could find a person like that.
Haha, you know, the ones in movies like Pretty Woman, The English Patient. :) :) I assumed that I could get close to anybody I wanted and could get the kind of relationship I was looking for,...
I think so. I feel it makes me quite dependent on people and kinda needy. Yeah, a romantic relationship. The movie kind haha.
Haha, I just meant to tell you to try as many types of strategy games as possible. I think AverOblivious hit the nail on the head. Every type gets tempted to develop their tertiary. It's...
Actually, yes. I feel that I cannot live without fantasizing a perfect relationship or idolizing somebody.
Hey guys. Just wanted to know if craving a relationship was something normal or if it was confined to XXFJs or just me haha.
Haha, I'm pretty sure most of us do. My question was whether you're good at any of them :) :P
It might seem so at first glance, but they key to knowing your temperament is finding out what you can't live without. I do enjoy freedom, knowledge, etc, but I absolutely cannot live a life which...
I don't think so. I would rather feel that I had more opportunities than the rest to turn my visions into reality.
The temperaments are quite different. Each temperament has core needs which they can't live without. Artisans(ISTPs) cannot live without freedom or an ability to make an impact. Rationals(INTPs)...
1. Wreck-It Ralph. 2. In The Land Of Women. 3. Pretty Woman. 4. Sleepless in Seattle. 5. The Notebook.
:) Thanks. You've been a big influence on me. I really hope I will find someone like that too. I wish you the best for all your endeavors and your advice is much appreciated.
Haha. Glad you were able to enjoy it too.
Thanks. I think I need a little confidence in my own judgement too. I think I'll start off with small steps till I gain confidence in my judgement. Thanks for the encouragement. Its made a big...
Haha. I've been in the same situation quite a few time XD XD
