'So me and a co worker (we are both substitute teachers) we flirted alot almost every day for like a month , alot of eye contact , he would nervously giggle at shit I would say even though it wasnt...
Enfp,infp,infj, intj,
Any genre?
How do I get SJ in general to understand me? I get told I'm a weirdo a lot especially when they find out I'm sensitive and a big dreamer I don't want to get on anyone's nerves but also I want to...
22 don't want to age anymore
I dated an istj it was horrible his Te clashes with my Fe(infj ): he would be too blunt with me he is not emotional at all and I am very sensitive. He would call me goofy, a weirdo etc..that S/N...
Why cant I figure you out ? Why do I always feel like I clash with SJ in general? I sometimes feel like I'm being judged): I feel so vulnerable and not good enough...i clash with my dad(XSXJ) we dont...
I can have casual sex as long as its mutually agreed that its only sex and no feelings involved. However it has backfired on me when I had feelings for the guy and he wasnt honest about his feelings...
dont get discouraged keep being you someone out there does notice (:
i have one on my nose, three of them are located below the belt area if you know wat I mean..
I told him off and told him cruel stuff(I told him I hated him and wished he would die and I made fun of his moms death) which I'm not proud of I feel very deeply bad and I regret it I know I know...
Yes I agree its quite painful didn't think I'd be way off on my feelings... us gals are a little at fault for idealizing so much but also its the guys fault as well for leading us on...what a sick...
Thank you what you wrote to me really made me smile and cheered me up.... in fact it made my day (:
Be nice about it I once had a lady problem and had an infection for a while some jerk was mean to me about it until I explained it was an infection...maybe she has a condition or something you never...
How about INFJ? :p
As Razare said, work on forgiving him in your heart - someone like that deserves sympathy as well, because they're lost and confused in the dark. They don't know what real love is. And never...
yes that is exactly what I did I idealized this guy way too much I always held back a little because I always had this gut feeling that he was hiding things from me and I ignored myself and wanted...
thank you everyone for the hugs and the friendly advice (: I'm feeling way better today than I did yesterday! thank you thank you thank you from the bottom of my heart thank you!
I'll try and not to blame myself although its difficult I'm extremely hard on myself. He told me I was fat, ugly, stupid, lonely and he laughed at me for letting myself get used ....I know I...
What you described is almost identical to what I went through with my istj ex and let me tell you that unfortuantely things ended badly(his fault of course). Anyways best advice I could give: Be...
Devastated and still shocked 2 1/2 weeks ago I found out I was being used and lied to ): I feel so sick that anyone would do such a wicked thing. I was so in love with him I cared so deeply I wanted...
soft boiled, of course im trying my hardest to get over that ex(no contact ever again with him), just need positive perspectives so I dont have the wrong attitude towards istj's just need a little...
Ok Im not totally serious my bestfriend is an istj and she is a total sweet heart..but how can an istj just cause pain on purpose and not feel guilty? It bothers me to know my ex istj used me...ugh...
Im a big cry baby I can listen to a sad song and ill start tearing up. Movies, the news, tv arguements, etc I can cry easily. Its difficult to bottle in all the emotions I feel.
Legalize so all the haters can shut the f up already...hits from my bong (; haha... Seriously though all the ignorance and sterotypes towards weed have got to go
Their is nothing wrong with marijuana. I would never waste my time with anyone that has a biased negative view towards it. Its a topic that needs to be seriously discussed and taken more seriously....
If he has told you are pretty more than once then I say yes he was hitting on you
this is the cutest example ever (:
My roommate and I were struggling financially eating bread and ham for a while...our istj bestfriend comes over with groceries for the week and she cooked us a yummy breakfast I was sooo deeply...
My favorite are black and pink. To me black means elegance, mystery, melancholy, dark, intense,classic,. Pink reminds me of blushing, shyness, romantic love, fairytales..
*im an infj* but thought maybe I could help, good luck (;
This is difficult to think about my istj ex was very mysterious for me until this day he is a mystery for me. He would show affection in very subtle ways that had me over analyzing over and over...
I can relate alot to what your saying but I wish I had the real thing though ):
Ive only tried marijuana,salvia and mushrooms. Marijuana I smoke on a regular basis. I enjoy it highly if it gives me a peaceful , I have a preference for sativas. Salvia I have tried it only once it...
I would just break dishes, mirrors, stereo,fans, etc.. and I once broke my brothers bedroom window not proud of it. Im better now though im alot more peaceful (:
Thank you for sharing your personal stories with me..its comforting knowing everyone experiences a heart break. Sorry I took my time to respond back on here it takes alot emotionally to even talk...
...hmm it took me two years to get over my first ex. Not that im trying to compare my current situation to a past relantionship but is two years too much time? Now im wondering whats normal and what...
yeah I agree, it also wouldnt be fair for a guy to be used as a rebound. Im going to take it a day at a time im starting to do better sometimes I want to rush it and get over it one day to the...
Being jealous sucks its so emotionally draining im trying to be more logical but its hard I get that sick feeling in my tummy and I just want to cry when I get intense feelings of jealousy ): I keep...
You dont deserve to be ignored no matter what he is going through . That is just plain mean and a bit selfish. Everyone deserves a decent good bye to come to closure. I agree he probably is trying...
1) mainstream music(enough with the whole hip pop/rap scene, its shallow,materialistic and vain) I can't believe people can consider that their favorite music it just has no depth to it. Thanks to...
Thank you all for the friendly advise so far Im doing ok ,I talked about it with my istj girlfriend she was such a good listener she didn't really give me advise ,she can't figure out my situation...
I got 50 ): I wanted to score higher, its hard with just eyes, I rely on body language and tone of voice as well.
I feel like a weirdo because I feel so emotionally needy and Ive come to realize not a lot of people are into sensitive people...I'm too sensitive, deep, insecure and shy...I even feel its too much...
my ultimate goal was to be in a relationship with him we have so many bad moments as well as good. yes I actually did fantasize the day he would realize the effort I put into making it work but I...
Im always changing majors first it was education(right now im a substitute teacher) my major is in criminal justice(i got older and criminal justice I love it but its too dark for me, im very...
My bestfriend is an ESTP with a good developed Fe he isnt a manipulator I think maybe you have just met ESTPs with issues. Also I think maybe they can be misunderstood they are very talkative and...
Yes I agree with above, high school are not the best years of your life. From my personal experience it was awkward and superficial. Did have a few good moments like meeting my two best friends. One...
Yardiff bay: its ok I really did realize I have major flaws in myself. It makes sense to me now he doesnt want me because of my flaws its common sense if he really wanted me the way I want him then...
This made me laugh out loud hard! Thanks for the laugh!'
