'I actually left the house and am glad I did, because I got to meet one of my favorite musicians (Roger Clyne of The Refreshments and Roger Clyne and the Peacemakers). Fan for 20 years, finally got to...
I'm an agnostic atheist and a peaceful anarchist (voluntaryist), so discussing religion and politics can end up in heated debate if I'm not careful in my approach. I do enjoy discussing both areas...
It's been happening to me for years. Usually I develop them on people I think are highly intelligent who have a bit of charm...college professors, doctors, etc. But I've had them on friends,...
Medical school. Should have gone.
Missing.In.Action.
Oh gosh, I dunno...I think I'm quite plain, but thank you. <3
NOooo I'm too shy! I think he'd ask if he wanted to meet up again, which is why I'm confused.
I'm an INFJ and cannot figure out this INFJ dude. grrrr We started talking on OkCupid a few weeks ago...I saw that he viewed my profile a few times, so I initiated contact...he wrote about a...
Mmmm. Hard to explain my thoughts on this, but I totally get the original poster's question. I'm a pretty detached person. Even when I'm in a relationship with someone and I allow them in and...
Sometimes I think I might actually be an INTJ. I can't figure it out. I think I use far more Fe than Fi, though. Maybe INTP. I dunno. lol
I've never been a warm & fuzzy person. I'm empathetic...when a person's struggles aren't their own fault. If I've warned a friend that an idea they have is a bad one and they do it anyway (despite...
INFJs ARE thinkers, but our sense of idealism and morality guides our thinking.
The forum is working properly for me again! 602202
I'm so glad I'm not the only one. <3
I don't know...I haven't changed anything. Been using Chrome for years, and haven't added any plugins. :/
I would have said something upfront. Sorry, I won't be able to do that, because I have plans with my family this weekend (and say what the plans are). I used to let people take advantage of me...
Thanks again for all your responses. I can relate to everything! I can't thank posts. PerC is broken for me. :(
PerC won't let me thank or quote posts (something is broken), so...thank you to anyone who has posted here. I think you might be onto something, umop 3pisdn... I DON'T care anymore, and that's...
I have never - ever - claimed to be a warm and fuzzy person. Yet, people expect me to be and get hurt/annoyed/angry when they find I am not. Maybe they assume that because I'm female, that I'm...
I tried to thank you and got the error message again. So - thank you for responding!
I get an error message when I try to thank posts, thanks aren't showing up under my profile (even though I have a notification that I have thanks). Just wonderin'!
I have it sometimes, yes...I co-host a radio show and podcast (and was recently asked to host another podcast), and I'm a writer, so...I often wonder why the heck I have fans...what's wrong with...
So, uh...I am 46 and have decided to stop coloring my hair, because it is all silver now, and I've been gradually getting the dark color removed...and I just got 5 inches of length chopped off....
I agree...the chameleon trait has pros and cons, but overall? It's mostly a negative trait, in my experience. :/ Also, re: the psychic ability...the process takes too long (for me, at...
One of my friends posted this on Facebook this afternoon. :laughing: The Elusive INFJ Theyx92ve been called a lot of things: The Unicorn, The Special Snowflake, The Oracle, The Protector, The...
I can relate to this. It takes me a long time to process things, and then the AHA moment comes, and I announce a decision, end a friendship or relationship, quit a project...and it blindsides...
I can relate to every word of this.
This is my favorite: 556906 I make it so strong that it looks like oil, and I add a little flavored creamer to it (usually Almond Joy, but I like a few other flavors too). I can't stand...
Aggressive behavior, neediness, selfishness, inability (or unwillingness) to respect boundaries... I warn men that I am VERY introverted and do NOT like talking on the phone a lot and that I am...
Okay. I ended a 6-month long distance relationship with a man last weekend, and I'm annoyed with myself for letting the relationship go on for as long as it did, and I'll explain why. We met...
Ooh. I think you are onto something here... My sister and mother are ISTJs and they always know things before I do re: people. I find myself constantly telling them You were right about...
I LOVE this idea. I'm a bit embarrassed that I never thought of this! Getting it out of my head and on paper is a great idea. Might help me sort through the chaos and notice patterns earlier. :)
Yes, exactly this!
Block them. I do it occasionally, mutual friends or not, and I'm honest about why.
Nutella. Sweet, chocolatey, and a bit nutty.
I have a personality trait that I don't like, and I'm trying to figure out how to improve it...and I'm wondering if it is an Ni thing, or perhaps an Se thing...or something else entirely. This...
No, because there's actually a LOT wrong with him. He's selfish, stingy, and kinda mean. I didn't waste my time telling him any of that though, because he's too arrogant to listen.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JLvFbBR4XOg This song and video came out when I was a teenager. I still love the song, and think the video is one of the best ever made.
I just ended one, and have NO interest in starting another one. Possibly ever. lol This time around, I became aware of a major flaw I have, and I need to work on that before I can even think about...
It usually makes me uncomfortable because I don't like hurting people. I'll try using my talent for self-deprecating humor to repel them first. If that doesn't work, I'll say I'm not in the market...
Confident, but wasn't always this way. Took years of learning to accept myself...flaws, strengths...all of it. And I'm still learning. But overall, I know I'm a kind-hearted person (seriously, I...
Oh, on this note...not sure about the rest of you, but I tend to be very tolerant of traits that really bother me in a person until they build up and I can't take it anymore. Then I have an epiphany...
It's why I prefer to make breakups short and sweet. I'll usually say something like, This just isn't working or give some other brief explanation. But if they start questioning me...oh boy. I have...
I'm in a life phase like this right now. I want the best for humanity, world peace, etc...I'm very anti-war and all that, and have been quite the advocate for the underdog for my entire life. ...
Oh, man. I remember this article. I think he's been spying on me or has read my diary. Strange timing, this thread, and this article...I broke up with yet another guy who had totally fallen for...
I was too, when I was younger. Just wait. LOL
Yes. Same here. I'm overly polite and quite accommodating, in fact...UNLESS. I'm slow to judge - often, too slow - and end up looking foolish sometimes because others saw things in people that I...
I do that too, and my best friend (INFP) tells me it's mean when she sees me in action. :unsure: She says I brain ninja people sometimes. Oops.
Oh snap! Yeah, that's how I am. No sugarcoating. And I expect the same in return.
I'm interested in trying mushrooms and ayahuasca (yes, with a shaman...one of my friends is one, but he lives far away). I've used MDMA twice and really enjoyed the experience both times, but the...'
