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Diplomats INFJ

Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealists.

'Laughed so hard. (He is KIDDING, folks! I hope.)

For Despotic Nepotist I can agree with ENTP, but I also get a bit of ENTJ. 1. I tend to be agreeable with people I'm not close to. If I start a debate with you, it means I respect you and we've...

What's everybody drinking tonight? A friend recently made me this concoction from Cinnamon whiskey and cream soda. It tastes like a cinnamon bun. This took forever to type.

I watched this movie about three weeks ago, and it has been absolutely haunting me (in a good way). Frank (2014) It's probably best if you go in without watching a trailer or knowing what it's...

Going by the definitions you provided.. for me, Se plays an important role in managing stress. It isn't always particularly effective or desirable for stress management, but it does kick into gear...

It's been almost a year... but I'm back. And oh, how I've missed you all!

I am so fucking scared and I can't do anything about it. I need to talk to someone but I refuse. They might turn my fear into a weapon. I don't want to wage war; I only want to feel safe. I...

One of my professors this semester is a big name in the community, department chair on campus, etc. He teaches quite a few of the courses in my program, but this is the only time I've been in his...

How does one forgive themselves for the mistakes they've made when they also understand why they made those mistakes? Is that part of forgiving? Understanding why it happened? But I don't...

How am I supposed to give details without seeming all deep and mysterious? I'm kidding, but to tell the whole story would be cumbersome and boring to anyone reading. The short version is: Work...

Ugh. I was really hoping to be wrong. I'm so tired of fucking everything up. I drive myself insane, deciding that This Will Happen and then collapsing when This Happens Instead. In the...

The freedom to do whatever I want has exposed the lazy, incompetent mess I am. I moved into my new apartment a month ago.. there are still boxes everywhere and I haven't taken care of a million...

After eight years, a broken engagement, and a nasty breakup with an INTP... I met someone. I never thought I would. At the very least, I figured I'd spend years alone before wanting another...

Chronic bitchface at Disney.  Goes great with the ears..  http://i57.tinypic.com/9r0dqs.jpg

I hate having roommates. It doesn't matter how cool they are. The terrible ones are worse, but even the excellent ones are bad. I don't even want to walk around my house. A month ago, my fiance...

I hate when people ASK me to be confrontational. Like, just let us know if we're being too loud! Um, no. I'm never going to do that. Instead, I'll seethe in my room and curse you for...

Yep, most of it has already been said! In short: I love roller coasters and theme parks. I spend too much money on pretty things. And I drink.

It just takes time. There is nothing wrong with opening up slowly. Allow people to earn your trust as you get to know them, and don't think twice about keeping some things private until you...

I honestly thought that two people, both working 40+ hours a week, would be able to afford a small apartment. Pay the bills, shop for groceries. Go out to dinner every once in a while. Live...

I've realized that my tendency to plan and direct everything goes over a lot better when I don't actually announce that I'm doing it. For example, I'm currently planning a trip to Disney. My SO...

I just found out my supervisor at work was transferred to another school. Clerks don't work during summer, so I won't see him again. When I said goodbye for summer, I didn't think it was forever. ...

That's pretty much exactly what happened with me. The typical INFP description wasn't too far off. Sometimes the test would give me INTP or INFJ, and all my scores were always 50/50 for T/F and...

I have two. A serious business shit list, with only a few people on it at any given time. They're people I am absolutely not speaking to. The real shit list. Then there's a really big list of...

I just want to fix it. Not even for my own comfort, really, but everyday conflict can honestly be so silly and there's no need for the whole environment to become tense/hostile over petty things. I...

INFJ - high tolerance for pain, but otherwise pretty sensitive physically. Being tickled is torture, and little things like mosquito bites drive me crazy with the itching and burning. I do get a...

The short answer is yes. I only know two confirmed INFJ's but I felt strong connections to both of them long before I knew anything about Myers Briggs. Possible confirmation bias, I know. The...

Do Everything Without Bitching. I saw it as a bit of graffiti once. I think there is a popular image on the internet of the same message, but the one I saw was on my own college campus. It...

Although I can't speak much to any relation between the INFJ personality type and Bipolar Disorder, this is something important I've learned: Personality does not equal behavior in MBTI. Your...

I have been diagnosed with adult ADD. I'm not sure if I agree with it, but I'm not particularly opposed to the idea. Interestingly, I've also been diagnosed with OCD, with emphasis on obsession. ...

I am extremely picky. I actually have these sort of categories in my head of people that are cute or even attractive but they are not quite potential mates. Part of this is because I am in a...

It's really frustrating that I often embarrass myself in attempt to be articulate or professional. Nothing ever seems embarrassing at the time - if I need to send an email at work, I obsess over...

Misery loves company? As an alternative theory, I recently read about human biology and how we once had to maintain a high level of stress to survive. Hunting, searching for edible plants,...

Devin Townsend! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H5BqyluKkk0

Why am I so.. awkward? I'm in my first real full-time office job, and loving every second of it. I even love the people I work with, and I look forward to seeing them every day. It takes me a...

I always have the urge to offer a handshake, heh. Whether or not I do depends on the situation. It can definitely be interpreted as strange to offer another woman a handshake, although I don't...

I didn't even notice that... Sorry?

No, not at all. Had I already known what I wanted to hear, I wouldn't have asked. I was given advice that I considered useful. Apologies if I'm misinterpreting your intent, but I'm not really sure...

This isn't really a vent, I just don't know where to put it. But shhhhhh! Everyone! I bought my wedding dress! Eeeeeep! Here's the part where I make you look at it: ...

I'm very thankful for all your responses, but this is the response that is so very refreshing to see on PerC, haha. Thanks Bago. I am reaching out to him one more time, to say that I want our...

Hullo INFPs, nice to see you! I have a friend I've known a little while, around six months, who is a confirmed INFP. We talk mostly through online messages and texts, which I think works well for...

Funny - it's the total opposite for me. I would peg ESTP as my least compatible type. Not that I never get along with them, or that I can't see why they are excellent people, but we are so...

This was posted on the forums recently, and hit me quite hard: I am a strange compound of weakness and resolution.

I have a diagnosis of OCD, but I'm not sure how I feel about it. I am markedly more obsessive than compulsive. I do not have any ritualistic compulsions. I am a perfectionist and a very clean...

I think Aizar touched on this a little, but it's important for me to draw a distinction between jealousy and envy. I believe both were described in the original thread. The way I see it, envy is...

I didn't take this specific quiz, but I pretty much always get Hufflepuff or Ravenclaw, depending on exactly where the quiz puts importance on traits for each house and whatnot. Surprisingly enough,...

Is it bad that I specifically went and bought beer because I knew I would need one or two of them for the act of confronting my roommate? I know everything I'm going to say. I'm going to make it...

I wish drugs were the entire problem.. I'm starting to think I would actually be protecting my own safety by kicking him out, and that it wouldn't just be angry bitchy behavior on my behalf....

Uuuuugh, I HATE MY ROOOMMATE!! I hate him, I hate him, I hate him!!! He's been doing all kinds of illegal shit in my house, even though I've asked him to stop. He has absolutely no respect for...

I wish I could post this anonymously or something. I am really agonizing about whether or not to even post it. But there is no one I can really talk to about it and I am just.. ugh. I am so...

This is a common question on the forums. INxx types in general are relatively rare compared to ESxx types, but the forum is brimming with introverted intuitives. This leads some people to believe...'