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Diplomats INFJ

Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealists.

'I live near Seattle. Just north of it. I moved back here a few weeks ago. Originally from puyallup area but moved from Phoenix.

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Thank you all for reading this post. I dont get on this site often enough. It comforts me knowing that others feel the same way. life is a struggle and we have to have the power to push away the...

I used that and it made my Blood Sugars drop low and made me feel alittle better but hurt me too i take it speratically now.

Back to feeling lost inside, had some time where I thought i was ok. I had a girlfriend learned alot at work, I am very ambisious. I want to suceed but feel Im not. I have inner parts of me that want...

Here is a question I pose to you all, I want to tel my father I have a girlfriend but i don't know how. and see the thing is he didn't like her 4 years ago and in away said when someone else brought...

I have this overwhelming sense of being lost in my life. Inward struggles. Hate of oneself. Depressed and no real solution. Having to escape reality in a world I create. Alone and not self centered...

I need some help disphering what happened. and what type this gal is. i thought of an ENFP but is weird acts like an ENTJ but is wild and crazy like an ENFP but with some issues. And me being an INFJ...

I am soooo freaking lonely! I cant stand whats going on in my head. Always my dreams shatter and are weaker than glass. Guhhhhhhhh hurt at my heart.

I have a part bobcat names Terra. She is a chubby girl but for sure a ISTJ.

600 miles away. But I do see myself moving there cause it's too hot where I live. Sorry ik I have been a bother on these forums.

Sorry if this has already been told in another thread. How do you tell an ENFP you like her?

My dear friend and fellow inspirer, I seek the samething I want perfection. But I do see ur point. I am trying to cultivate a relationship with an ENFP but i don't know how she feels. I am a...

Deep and dark with a fading light of the stars which are the things we hold dear to our hearts. I know kinda long

Biliana: It's just i don't want to push to hard too fast. I want to talk to her everyday but I know I should wait. She seems like she might want me to take a step toward her. Hard when she is 600...

Hey I need some female ENFP advice on courting a ENFP and if I am doing it wrong or wondering what she is thinking. Please help. Ask any questions u need.prefer to use IM. I have honest intentions....

Trying to do my best. How would I know if she at least semi interested in me. I had her do the born as test and she is an idealist. But idk what to look for or do. Yes we love music to death some...

I'm learning about her. We used to be friends 10 years ago but she moved away. So I am learning about her. I want to talkto her everyday. But I can't that's a hound. She answers my conversations with...

I am a split INFJ and a ISFJ and honestly I don't feel that treasured. Maybe it's just me. have a ENFP friend he is cool. I'm trying to establish a relationship With a supposed ENFP. Or at least my...

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Miriamisfj: I am sorry for what ever happens to you. First I dont show much sadness, I dont know why. Ohhh I feel trust me I do. Just it takes alot to make me cry I want to sooo much but...

Hello137: Its sad i know. Its been over a year. And my friends told me to wait a few months cause she got outta a bad releshinship. I didnt ask her out cause i wanted to draw closer as a friend....

Well i was heartbroken again found out last night the gal i like has a BF and that is from herself not from anyone else. bummer. idk y i am being a tough guy blocking out my thoughts, i am on 3 hours...

That is soooo hard to tell them u have a crush on them. Cause they are beautiful and lovely and when u ask them to do things they say they really want to come but say i cant. Or just say they cant....

I hope that my heart is big enough for her to notice. It will be shy at first but i open like she does when i feel comfortable. I remember things she says to me and stores that infomation. She told...

Interesting. But yeah. She gave me hug one day when i had her over for that dinner back in auguest. I dont want to give up on her. I drove past her work a few minutes ago. Her car wasnt there. Thats...

Yeah talked to my friend too about all this he said you just need to see her as a friend nothing more than u will be able to joke and have fun and not be so timid soo much, he said hug her the next...

I hate it too, i just like them to tell me what type of person i am and what i mean to them and they encourage me by saying those things which in turn build me up and help me to think i am still...

nothing helps only time and talking about it tons of times has helped me, even tha still get remorseful somedays. I am sorry man that that happened. just go on. it will be hard but eventually you...

yeah i will have to put on my thinking cap on what i want to do. thank you again. but yes something small like you said i can compliment her. I still have the earings she wanted me to make her, and...

hmmm thats interesting. well she doesnt know my goals, i think she says yeah i kinda enjoy being around him, he may seem like someone i might trust but idk him that well enough yet. I hang out with...

Its okay we all have to have our alone time. Allows us to think and everything. Her uncle said no she isnt. But he said she was a few months back but she brooke it off with him and than they still...

Well hmmm. Interesting. Yeah she may but she trust her cusin. I asked her cusin if she was seeing anyone and she said yeah she does. But i am sure her cusin told her i asked her if she was seeing...

HAHAHAHHAHA! I feel thats alot of pressure. but hmmmm. but dont you women like to get ready and make u gals look ur best.hmm. glad u think she forgot. i just feel that might psuh her way, do you like...

U offer me alot of advice. I really hope she is as easy going as you are. I asked her how many cats and dogs she had to groom that day? Just something to keep the ball goingnin texts. But i have...

Well yeah she did but i asked her something else and she didnt respond. But do ISFJ and ISFPs go together. I just feel unsure of what she wants. Ik i could ask but i am unsure as she is because i...

I just feel shy too as well as she does to. I could ask her but feel ill be judged by it like i think most girls will for liking them. But than again alot of women do like me. Its just hard. I read...

Wow u women are great to listen to. Cause i having an issue with a ISFP. i like her but i dot know what she wants. I posted my issue if u want to read it. But wow i like understand me, cause i am an...

You have got to be kidding me? I just did that today before reading ur response so the first thing she saw on her phone was hope u have a wonderful day. She replied back 3 hours later and said thank...

Happy i am not like him in that respect i am a quote in quote virgin dater i want to share a life with her and make her happy and defend her. But i am sorry that happened thats not fair. I want my...

OMG i do that too. Reread everything and see if its right or sounds right. Especially if its a text to a certain gal i like ;) but i hate that i cant live in the now. I have to over think it

That i get too ansy. And i have to have people verify thwt what i am doing is right or okay for me to do.And that i overthink things to death. And have no way to shut my brain off.

Interesting i dont retuinely call her or text he maybe ever 7 or 8 days so she doesnt feel i am hounding her. But interesting. I dont ask her to do any all the time. Its selective cause she needs her...

A movie hahahah. I just was soooo flustered. Besides u and and her she is the only ISFP ik. So i needed feedback and i appreciate it. I wish i could text her now or call her now but i wont cause u...

letsride: UPDATE: Well i was with friends and i decided i couldnt take it anymore so i texted her how work was and how i enjoyed the a convention this weekend. And she replied back an hour later...

Idk if I asked her out or not, just trying to get her involved in our social dircle cause she doesnt do much, she is very family oriented. I want to hang with her but if i say to her family or her i...

Yes I am that way too. It is easier to say in words on the computer than in person. he just has to see u as still there even if he breaks down in front of you. I goes along way to establishing trust....

i dont know if she does. and cause of low self esteem(ik not good to have with a woman cause they will cue in on that and could end up rejecting me) i feel she shouldnt full appreciate it. I know...

Yeah I figured I would to, but I dont want her to lose interest. I guess I will try being a friend. Someone to rely on with no strings attached. But I dont have much guts to ask anything, we dont...

Okay I dont know how to start this but I need to cause this has been pluaging my mind for months. I met this gal a year ago and at the time was very nice. But I felt no confidence(in fact hadnt...'