'Very interesting topic.... From my perspective... Emotional Attachment seems almost like a crush, whilst love is... well I don't know. That said, down the line, Decided says Gives me alot...
Nothing. Take the high road. GW
32 in a few months. GW
Two minds about being single. First and foremost. Freedom. Freedom to do anything, anytime you want. Decide to visit greece tomorrow morning? Sure (I did that) Flipside: Lonely. Not lonely as...
Facts about me - Never in a relationship - Only crushes How I (mostly) got out - Focused on self - Decrease contact with said person - Make and meet more acquantances - Do stuff that makes...
Heh. sounds like me. But it's not healthy. Logically, it's best to find a mate that gives both partners in the relationship a possibility of growth. A looking after heal me relationship.... well to...
Oh gods don't remind me. That happened to me whilst working on a project with a guy last year, spoke to him for barely a few minutes and I developed this amazing crush on him (the way he spoke, he's...
So long as I feel safe, easy peasy. Close eyes, ZZZZZ...... GW
I do feel good when complimented, I usually say thanks, and think of something to compliment the person who complimented me. GW
I'm simple - I like wolves. End. GW
You make memories by living life to the fullest. Memories that make us what we are... is experience. GW
Do something, Learn something, Share something, Change something - Meetup.com Has infj meetup groups. Never been to one. Yet. I use meetup for life drawing meetups. GW
@OP: I got bored at the 3rd question. Sorry. GW
What does your *heart* tell you? Find something you feel will do good, but something that you will enjoy doing for a good part of your life. You didn't explain the marine biologist part.. GW
The only time I got over this defense mechanism was during my last crush. Which I think went badly. I think Slider is right there. On a related note, I tend to notice that extroverts tend to...
Just completed Warhammer 40k: Eisenhorn: Xenos, Malleus, Ordos. Starting on Feeling Good by David Burns, and also looking at books (3) on how to draw fur using acrylics and color pencils Edit:...
Often INFJs are described as kind but have you ever find that I think being kind and the characteristics described below are not necessarily exclusive. One can be cold, yet kind. I know I can be....
Amazon.com: The Introvert Advantage: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World (9780761123699): Marti Olsen Laney Psy.D.: Books Just finished this book, many tips on how to socialize in an extroverted...
I'm a spender. But now that I'm older and kinda planning for the future (buy an apartment etc) - what I do is the moment I get paid, I dump a percentage of my income into the bank...
My room looks like a grenade went off. GW
I spent years looking for a job I could get into. I looked into stuff that interest me, and finally found something I can really enjoy. Don't be too bogge down by type and jobs suitable. My current...
Hello all, I'm would like to ask my fellow infjs (or any type really) what they feel about the future, and how it affects the present you? I think I'm afraid of living in the present, and unable...
This wolf joins the scatter brained club. GW
Dear all, Thank you for the many replies. Just got back from my photography trip, was good fun 2 days out shooting puffins, commorants, terns, gannets and a whole load of other seabirds. It seems...
I love critters and enjoy the great outdoors. I am definitely NOT a naturelist though. Nature lover probably, but not in the strictest sense of the word. GW
*shrugs* I left a well paying job that was based on my academic skills to pursue my dream job. That cost me a major pay cut. Now though, I can say I am enjoying my work, and my pay is not...
What darkstar said. I've accepted who and what I am. GW
Oddly enough, I pay alot of attention to detail when I'm at work. Maybe it is indeed an emotional thing, memory. However, just a few days ago, I remember staring at the screen, looking at the menus...
Hopefully it's nothing so bad as a trip to the docs! Thought perhaps I should... (I'm a workaholic though... i've worked through literally coughing blood. Not taken a sick day in my professional...
Oh, it's less about remembering what people have said. If it's within a reasonable period I do remember. it's just meeting people with interests that are similar to mine, but i can't for god's sake...
Indeed. I also wonder if what I'm trying to express in words, is what I think and feel inside. Kinda worrying if the message is not sent across right :-/ GW
I have an obsenely bad memory. Just last night on the train home I was chatting with a friend and he asked if I'd watched Chronicles of Riddick. I said yes. And he spoke about the design of the...
I try not to be confrontational, as I generally know I will lose myself (my cool basically) when things get heated up. Perhaps it's me taking things too personally maybe? I cannot articulate my...
It really depends, Momo. As SuperunknownVortex says, everyone of us has an agenda. don't you? Be it simple things from wanting to be friends, or needing help, or more. Generally I don't feel fake...
I believe in soul mates, but I don't think our path in life is pre-conceived... or is it? I've always maintained that luck = preparation + opportunity. So far this hasn't failed me for much except...
First, Go GC! Woo! Rooting for ya :D Nothing to say about the touching thing. I'm generally alright with receiving and giving hugs, but touching I tend to feel a bit too intimate (clap on the...
I do. A bit too much. And I think it's not a good thing if it's one sided.... GW
I've always wanted to create cg stuff after playing games like Mechwarrior and Starcraft. I am currently living my dream. My next step is to create a happy social circle :) And maybe even a partner....
Less about type - I don't like people who a) cause/enjoy drama b) Waste my time c) seek to use me for their own purposes I try not type people when I meet them now, just to keep an open mind. Who...
Hmmmm that's a difficult question to ask. And my answers will probably be very sensor like. Job wise I already have a job I enjoy waking up to. It's been a long hard road to get to where I am,...
Awww nice warm fuzzy story in the morning :) Keep going girl, I envy both of you :) GW
Hi Vel! Morning. Nope I'm doing it as a hobby, and rarely am I away from my home for more than a day or so. I'd like to address the 2nd paragraph though, indeed yes I've sent signals and...
Often when the subject matter is close to my heart, or it's important to me. I'm long term, but I do tend to get lost in the short term details. And then my brain stops working, as I flail...
- Physically touching people: I appreciate it, so long as it's in a non-intimate way. I don't tend to touch ppl much as I feel it is a very strong gesture. - Affirming words: I appreciate it, and I...
Hypothetically speaking, I'd give it a shot for LDR, though there must be some definite plans e.g. returning in X time or I'm going there by Y. No definite decisions will grind my J side. I think the...
I used to do that. Mainly because there weren't many I could open my heart up to. Yes they do drive me depressed. It verily much helps to talk, just to let things go, a vent. However I would only...
Hello thegirlcandance :) Never fought for love b4, but coming up with reasonings? Oh yeah! That's so me :D Yup I've tried but I'm moving on to keeping it just-friends for now. If it happens down...
[/FONT][/SIZE][/COLOR] Hi CuritadeRana, :) Thanks for stopping by! Hopefully my other posts haven't been too annoying ;-) I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve and speak my mind. ...
Vel, You always cut to the heart and take a very unique standpoint. I do enjoy reading your posts, and thank you for responding to this topic. Indeed, I've already interacted with this person for a...
Hi! You may be surprised but when it comes to myself and my personal goals, I do things many people would think insane too. My hobby is wildlife photography, and I would think nothing of crawling...'
