'I had a relationship trauma two years ago with a guy who screwed over big time. After that, I've dated a few men, all short term relationships. I noticed my codependency, but also a fear that the...
I can't help but agree with you. But how would you cope without leaving the house (let's say, if you didn't have money to do it hehehe)?
Thank you all very much for sharing your stories!
Innocence as kindheartedness and confidence as self-acceptance. It's also fun when a partner knows their boundaries and, as a consequence, it conscient that you too have them.
The ENFP I dated was bullied at school and also spoiled as a child. In spite of being fun, smart and loving, he demanded my attention 24/7 and there was a lot of jealousy. When he started trying to...
My parents divorced when I was 5 and it made me see how immature they acted. They are still immature and they're lack of a self-esteem is very obvious. My mother is flexible, but my father...
It keeps coming back always, forever.
A beautiful smile Kindness Smarts Being profound and artistic Having an innocent aura and being a sex machine at the same time haha
You keep considering becoming a monk.
I know how you feel, honey. Sometimes I also yearn to become a monk. Since I was little child, I felt that all these things society expects from us are just tiresome. It seemed like it would be...
I had sex with an awesome friend who's leaving to live in London. It was awesome, just the way I like it and he's a great guy with a delicious, light energy. However, I can't help but feel...
I say taoist and buddhist because these are the main ways of living I'm prone to. But how are you managing to live in a more peaceful rhythm while still inserted in society?
Thanks! Do you have any references? Actually I've done some of that. Philosophy classes helped me big time back when I was in middle and high school. So did understanding how neurotransmitters...
HAHAHAH good point. Not only marijuana, but LSD and ecstasy. I stopped doing everything I knew messed with my mind.
I giggled :) Thanks!
You just can't get your ISTJ date and he drives you crazy, but you still feel like going out w/ him bc he's so intriguing.
You just can't get your ISTJ date and he drives you crazy, but you still feel like going out w/ him bc he's so intriguing.
See what happened. Depending on the case, give them another chance. All good if it never happens again. Happens again = bye.
I do. Very much, actually. But our country is going through a huge financial crises (not sure you've heard about it) and I can't pay for it :(
Thanks for the advice! Could you give me an example of it?
I used to go when I was 14 (that's when it all started) I don't go to counseling, but I talk to my yoga teacher constantly and it helps a lot.
Thank you! This is really good advice. I remember helping a recyclables collector (we have a lot of these people here in Brazil) who had her carruage stolen, so she spent all of her money on...
Yes, I actually do have unfinished things in my head. In 2015, when I was a freshman in college, I met this guy. I remember that I was talking to one of his friends and he sighed, and when he did...
I'm 20 years old and I've had depression since I was 14. I think it's because I didn't treat it, so I live in this crazy cycle, coming and going of depression. I've already done everything that's...
I'm dating an ISTJ and your description sounds a lot like him hahah I feel like we are completely different, but we accept and admire each other (which has nothing to do w/ MBTI) The...
sporadic handful love
What can you guys tell me about INFJ + ISTJ?
Hooooow? hhahaha
Hello. I've been recently reading about being an empath, clairsentient and a highly sensitive person, what has brought me a lot of life about why I feel the way I feel. However, it affects my...
Thank you so much!
it did work. I think that I just have a huge desire to connect, but I'm not connected with myself. HMMMMM
why did you ask that though? hahaha
Hmmmm... I'd like them to pay attention to me. To be considerate :)
Yep. It's like an equation. desire to connect x reluctante/fear of doing so = emotional gap (something's missing) I do have music and I write on my journal a lot for brainstorming purposes. I...
Hello :) It's come to my knowledge that I have inner demons and, not being aware of it, it's lowered my quality of life (depression, anxiety). So, I realized that I have to deal with these...
Kind of. I have told him (with words) how much I like and how much he means to me. But I seldom let it show in our day-to-day living, I don't bring it up because he is very closed and talking and...
I'm very confused about a love interest. We love each other in that unconditional manner, as we've been friends for over a year. We're not together, he's scared that he'll hurt me. It's been a while...
If only you'd stop and think, or maybe tell me the things you're feeling so I can organize your thoughts in an efficient manner, you'd get out of that hole full of self-pity and insecurity and just...
This is the third time I'm telling you. You're smart, why do you do that?
Reality: INFJ: Hi :) Crush: Hi :) *crush goes to class* Thought: I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT YOU, OMG, YOU'RE COMING, I HOPE YOU NOTICE ME
Phlegmatic and Melancholic
Would it be better to talk on FB than face to face? I don't really enjoy talking on FB, since I can't see how he reacts.
What is the best way to approach an INTP about an emotional issue? (e.g. I need to know what he feels; I need an answer)
Yep. All those knots on our throats, all those butterflies in our stomachs. MUST. NOT. SCREAM.
Idk if I felt passion. But, this time, it's much different. I thought I had fallen in love many times, but ended up realising things were all inside my head. Then, this year, in university, 19...
I don't mind really. I'm trying to solve my inner issues, or, rather, I'm trying to precisely identify them, so I'm able to act towards them. I know what is causing my this anxiety and fear, and I...
The problem was: I opened myself to receive love during sex and I didn't. I didn't prepare myself for a casual, cuddleless night and I got it. It made my head spin in a bad way. That's a very...
INTPs are just... so honest.
Love is above all
Dat buddhism.'
