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Diplomats INFJ

Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealists.

'I was just really frustrated in secondary school that no one was like me and that they were all so different in ways which I couldn't explain. Through random googling and link hopping I discovered...

On the outside people say I am super serious and I look 'depressed' but on the inside I am really really relaxed (except for certain things like tests etc. where I focus) and I love making jokes...

I like a lot of blog facebook pages and good newspapers so it works pretty well as a sort of RSS feed ever since apple mail removed the feeds option :( There are also some really good pages on...

We are the idealists - we seek to make our world the best it can be. I would say it is an understatement to say that most of my life is about ideas - I see potential in everything - myself, my...

Because just when you feel that life isnt worth living, something happens that makes it worth living again. It just shows us that we should never think that we know it all because circumstances can...

Dont give too many compliments unless you want an awkward response. We (Speaking for myself so feel free to disagree) hate compliments - Appreciation is better. Saying you like his view on something...

Nope- Don't have the money or motivation to make it happen.

Your username is so like the end of that post :D

If someone bought me a little gift that showed serious thought, it would make my week! You could always send her a little text asking her to come over for a nice cup of tea and then finish with...

Oh my yes! I honestly think this forum reads my mind, its scary. Im at university right now and since I live in halls there is this constant pressure to be social because everyone around you is...

Ok sure - you can message me for skype name if you want to chat

That sounded like it was a quote from mean girls - made me lol :D Some people do happen to develop deep feelings for others, I dont think self-centredness and apathy towards others is the best...

*cough* I live in Ireland and England :D come visit :)

Another not nice truth ( I'm trying not to do it :( ) I judge people based on what they are wearing sometimes. If you are wearing anything hipster I tend to think you have insecurity issues and...

What I'm looking for Someone to talk to who enjoys funny non-serious conversations about anything from art to science to why cant I talk to [name], why is being social so hard! Im not pretty...

Hang in there - I was pretty useless and it took me just over a year to pass but I did in the end :D Keep focus and try to plan out your actions when driving instead of rushing.

What about one near Bristol? The train fare is like 50 pounds :(

try mabey asking more specific questions relating to what you see. If you think he is ignoring you, ask him a spark question like I think we should eat out tonight but im not sure where That...

Dare you to strike up a conversation with a stranger (warning: this may cause extreme anxiety :D ) you will feel good after.

Paris Modern architecturally- awesome villa or cute cosy cottage?

We cant change our personality type so just embrace it! Of course people are going to bash because you may do things in a way they dont understand/like. INFJs are cool :D We just take a little amount...

There are other INFJs in the UK *cough* me :D just have to keep looking. The needing bit I get all the time but it almost feels like I want company rather than what they have to give, more of a...

There are days when being an INFJ completely sucks - friends, being misunderstood, large social events, reading into things too much, pseudo-lonliness because you don't know what to do anymore,...

It is these type of stories that make you ask the question - Is the world getting too big? It seems to be very frequent that you hear about stories of bullying and suicide with the same ending of...

Look around, find someone who is quiet or looking like they arent exactly part of a group and say hi on your way to get a drink or some other excuse to go in their direction - Have fun :)

If the stores are pretty then yes :D but it is just clothes shopping I get annoyed because of prices and all that other stuff.

*Really long Hug* Go make some tea and frame shift out of this rut. You probably feel better since posting your message anyway. Ask yourself do you really like these people or just like the idea of...

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All I want for christmas is youuuuu..... *hums the rest* It had to be said :D A hug and a nice meal + catchup with family and friends would be nice

What an awesome video!! I will think of it when rushing past the green man tomorrow :D I was so confused as to how my post got here - Was gonna apologise for posting it in the wrong thread...

I have worked out the precise interval that the traffic light goes red at to allow pedestrians to cross so I can save vital seconds rushing to uni for 9am. The walking man goes green around the 58...

From my own experience: #5 We like life's little pleasures. Giving us a call to say whats up or just making us feel that we are a part of what you are doing means way more than any...

Possessed. I just find it so funny to say :D like I would go like - see that cat over there, its posessed :D

I just started University and have the same problem - you know you have to approach and meet people in order to make friends but it is so hard! People will never laugh at you like that so I would not...

The idea of a bromance seems awesome, I think I got close to one with an intp once - wonder how much more awesome it is with an INFP?!

OMG *BESTIES* hehe well at least you agree with the finer detail thing - so that is nice :D

When you feel like the person is making the same mistakes over and over - your advice means nothing. Or there is a fundamental disagreement on an important issue. That is my tolerance point- Once...

If you talk to me for the first time I can get a little giddy but still ask way more questions than the other person would. Smile a lot, use hands, look around a lot. I also tend to make lots of...

Have you tried hallucinogens before? If so, you need to lay off :D I understand what you are saying but to be honest it is pretty much a waste of your valuable thinking time to dwell on it. You...

I tried writing down new words I learnt once and it failed lol same with things I know- it is annoying how bad my memory is for things other than science lol

Yes :D I have to keep questioning my self to ensure I am asking enough questions to stop a convo from dying and yes I also tend to rant + lecture on peoples moral decisions hehe - What about you?

When you spend most of your time on this forum thanking people instead of posting because the previous posters have said exactly what you were thinking. Love this forum :D

I totally get what you are saying! sometimes when someone is explaining something, I get very impatient when they fill the explanation with superfluous details - Get to the point! The idea!!- Are...

Yes! I get this all the time. I spend all day reading cool articles or doing interesting things and then when someone asks what did you do today? my mind goes completely blank. Same when trying to...

I don't understand, so you are saying that we should all carry a firearm just incase a psychopath decides to open fire. Prevent means to stop the situation from happening, if you shoot back during a...

to feel that im contributing to something awesome.

Wow some of that was like whoa that happened to me like last week lol the bit in bold,italic and underline is exactly im going through at the moment. I guess you could try and be humours, it...

It is awesome! I could try doing that but I would get bored saying the same response lol and it is almost like a convo killer when you are talking online ... :/

Very true about how being creative energizes you, I was super anxious today and drew a portrait of a person and the stress went away almost instantly and I felt refreshed! That story about the glow...

Hai! Log in and go wild, if you head over to the INFP forum you will be right at home but other forums are awesome too *cough* INFJ :D'