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Diplomats INFJ

Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealists.

'I Never got into it either lol

I'm a short 5'7 :bored:

I can't say this happens to me, or maybe they just don't ask me out.

lol I gave myself the nickname Mr. Oblivious for similar reasons.

That's a very good way to put it, I am also 90% of the time placed directly into the friend zone... not the greatest thing.

I definitely have more female friends than guy friends. I find it difficult to connect with other guys.

This is my problem as well

Thank you, yes I do lol

I lived with three other people for awhile, it was really cool other than the apartment was way too small for that many. Definitely I think the experience has a lot to with the type of people your...

I was considered more mature than my sibling for sure. And I definitely felt wise beyond my years, some of my friends did the most stupid / dangerous stuff.... Most of which would end badly,...

Yes I am...

I find the difference between INFJ and the other types is found in the difference in distance from who we think we are/ who we want to be vs who we think the outside world wants (NEEDs) us to be....

Definitely an interesting topic, the divide between the three selves can be quite frustrating.

My best friend is a ISTJ, he drives me crazy half of the time. But his ST helps ground me when I'm over-thinking too much.

Alcohol doesn't affect me like that, letting go and having fun is hard for me. Have fun I guess lol

Agreed, I think there are a lot of quotes which are loosely creative but done really strike home for me anyways.

... I don't I feel neutral, I guess both sides have there problems. The whole thing doesn't seem that thought out.

Yes... Some times it gets me into trouble :P

I've really enjoyed this thread lol I definitely relate to a lot of these ideas. And personally I browse the internet for hours looking for personalized ringtones for people I care about... Most of...

Welcome to the forum, hope you enjoy the conversations :)

That does sound like a train wreck, but it does sound like something happened behind the scenes that derailed everything. Definitely not an excuse by any means. Hope you find your answers to your...

LOL he's lucky that you listen to what he says even a little, soo many people don't listen!! ARGH Although at the same time we are not always right, even if it sounds like it makes sense.

Agreed, it sounds like it more of just a time thing. There are times when I'm mad, but not really. I just have to work through it.

I enjoy it, although when forced to learn it (Calculus in university), it became a nightmare.

Stress definitely brings out my unpleasant side.

For me hating is in the past, its like walking backwards. Sure it can be fun at first, but once the novelty has worn off your too focused on the past and not the future. And eventually you'll walk...

Hey Welcome to the forum :)

Hey Welcome to the forum! :) I know a couple of ENFJ in real life, in my experience they're not the type of person who lives on the forums. They tend to be really busy work & volunteering etc.

I'm a fan of strategy games like StarCraft 2 or the Civilization series.

Not going to lie, I laughed at this title :P LOL I am such an over emotion nerd

I feel for you, I've been that INFJ ... *shifty eyes* In my experience for me love is like an addiction, thus cold turkey seems to work the best. A friend relationship might not be possible until...

I briefly dated an ESFP, for the life of her she couldn't understand me. That was a train wreck of an relationship

Now that's definitely a major problem.

I've been in this situation and the guilt was definitely there. For me my logic was it is better to help them (make sure they get home) then to go against the emotion. This in turn made me feel...

Very powerful thread, Total respect for Zomboy, for being true to himself. I was also teased in high school about being feminine or gay, and that really made me question myself. No matter how many...

LOL as we speak I'm researching artificial intelligence programing :tongue: Im going to be stuck on this tangent all day:wink:

Yeah that was something my mother told me before she passed away... its ok to be a little selfish, don't let people abuse your helpful nature.

Got to love Highschool / Junior high so many people who I would rather not have to interact with again.

I'm in the same boat, university did help me connect with people. But not at the level I would like too.

Some times it feels like I have 3 lives home, work, and school.

I have a midterm tomorrow... :tongue: ... I really should study soon:unsure:

Ah the exciting adventures of the roommate :tongue: A classic

I have that problem, my last relationship was like that. I think she broke up with because I was having problems switch modes:frustrating:

Couldn't have said it any better:tongue:

I know three people who took the test and got INFJ although two them I doubt. Ok the first one is a friend of my best friends girl friend never really knew. The next I was being setup with we both...

The past is over so don't worry about if this had happened... If you like her be open to the idea. I don't know I not one who should be give relationship advice lol:mellow:

Aries:proud:

Hey welcome to the forum, The more you explore the more you'll get out of it.:happy:

Welcome to the Forum :happy:

I don't have one yet but I will soon, and then I'll prob change it a million times. I think its really important, it tells the world who you were in a sentence or two. I find it very poetic'