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Diplomats INFJ

Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealists.

'My close friend is an ENTP and she's quite similar. When something is over it's over, she pretty much decides on someone and then stops thinking about it. She'll keep them as friends afterwords, and...

I would get really angry when I was a kid. I threw some pretty bad tantrums over pretty tiny things. Now I see anger as something really ugly... because it made me say things that I regretted later....

Way to be open-minded and self-aware. :) I'm definitely a know-it-all, but sometimes you just have to accept that you really don't know it all. Also, in the end people don't want to be corrected,...

Yes, yes, yes, to all of the above! That is the story of my life. I tend to prepare myself for the absolute worst in terms of relationships. As soon as I see a guy I'm attracted to I'm immediately...

Have you ever considered that there are INFJs all around you that you just aren't seeing? Yes, I can be shy, but I can hide it pretty well and have been forced to learn social skills throughout my...

The thing that I have learned that has most helped me in life is that the only person you should ever count on to live up to your expectations is yourself.

I consider myself pretty awkward, but I have gotten way better at it than I used to be. It's been part of growing up for me, learning how to speak to people. It doesn't come naturally to an INFJ like...

I have a crush on a boy at work (story of my life) and for the sake of the internet I call him Noah. Noah is a conundrum. Upon first meeting, he is quiet and standoffish. He's kind of...

I'm in limerence a lot, and my general term for it is a crush. I don't say I like the person - I say I have a crush on them, because usually at the point where I'm limerent I've only just met them or...

How do you feel when someone changes or suggests plans all of a sudden? I'm finding that I have a very hard time being spontaneous. If someone invites me somewhere, I want to know all of the...

Hey Rim, I actually went through a bit of the same stuff that you did. I often test ENFP or INFP because with NFJs the organization doesn't really apply to physical objects always. The tests are...

Just because you share the same time as someone doesn't mean you'll be exactly like them. MBTI only defines certain traits, and even still is only a personality THEORY. So don't take it too...

YAY! Just wanted to say how awesome PC is and how glad I am to be here. Also, I felt like bragging. Because 100 is the best number ever. Until 1000. :laughing: Maybe we can make this thread...

WAIT WAIT DO OVER THE WHOLE THREAD. Just kidding. Yes, ISTJ. :D

Walrus is highly possible. Verification of tusks necessary for further opinion. :) Really though, I'm thinking ISTP or INTP. I mean, the amount of analysis you put into things like planning your...

You sound ENTJ to me. I'm ignoring the conclusions you reached for a letter for each statement because some of them are incorrect and I can figure it out myself. :) Also, it's intuitive, not...

I'm leaning towards INFJ too. While I love people I also get stressed out when someone asks to hang out during a time I'd been expecting to get some alone time. Overall I dislike surprises and...

I woudn't say that I'm absolutely always correct, but I love to people-read. Anytime I eat out, I'll take the seat where I can watch the most people because I enjoy figuring them out and seeing all...

That sucks.. I'm sorry. :/ You can always hope that the doctors are like the ones in Grey's Anatomy where they constantly ignore the DNR. Today sucks for me because I'm sick.

I do that stuff too! It helps that I have a dog to talk to, but still... in the end I'm really talking to myself. Sometimes I won't even realize I said something until someone comes around the corner...

Sounds like she might be IXTJ to me. What do you mean by practical things and intuitive thoughts? Everyone can use all functions, it's just about what she uses more to determine type. How does...

I had a friend drag me to a yoga class five years ago. I remember I felt like it was silly and the poses were uncomfortable. Well, duh they were uncomfortable. It's a workout. XD Actually, I've...

I don't think it's fun to hate things. In fact, I can say I actually hate very few things. On the other hand, I do think it's fun to criticize things and pick them apart. It's a bad habit I...

If I ignore your test results, I want to say ISFP because you sound like an ISFP roommate I had, who was organized in work but messy at home. I can't really give specific examples beyond that, but...

I want to see if you can type my crush. Whom I know very little about. Doesn't have to be perfect... Guesses are good too. Just for fun. XD About him: - Kind of quiet and reserved. He's actually...

I agree. While they're often harder to meet in the first place, I like the understanding between introverts. Also, I'm very often more attracted to people who are reserved and mysterious than I am to...

I have sympathy, sure. I try not to let it get carried away though. As much as I think I might understand, I tend to live my life on the principle of not assuming things about people. This means that...

It's hard to ever have someone be better than what you imagined based off of their internet profile. People are people - solid, weird, awkward, and imperfect. The way I get rid of awkwardness is...

I wouldn't go counting your chickens before they hatch. I've found that sometimes I feel like a sensor doesn't understand me, and then they'll say something that's extremely insightful about my...

Girls: Would you dare to ask a guy out(on a date)? Would you feel uncomfortable? Have you ever done it? Yes, yes, and yes. Sometimes I just can't stand all the subtle nuances and hints and maybes...

I agree with what others have said. I'm a bit of a narcissist too, but at the same time I think quite lowly of myself. I think this just comes from the fact that I'm very concerned how I fit into the...

Honestly, I've been attracted to all types before. I mean, not every single one, but a wide variety. ESTJ, ISTP, ESFP, ENFP, INFP, INFJ, ENTJ, ENFJ. There's pros and cons to every type just like...

Okay Equinox. Here's two ways people figure out their type (if they find the test unsuitable). 1.) Beat it out based on the letters. This can be easier but sometimes too shallow of an...

Good answers. You all win the grand prize... of being awesome! I know that it's hard to answer, and therein stands one of the things that makes INFJs so interesting. They are a blend of mercy and...

Who hasn't had anything bad happen in the past? There isn't anything astronomically tragic that I can think of though. I mean, our family has gone through a lot of dramatic stuff. She has nine...

Agreed - I've seen that a lot as well. Though, I've seen type superiority everywhere. It's in-group psychology.

So my mom took the MBTI test once through a Facebook thing, and she got ENFP. Lately I've been doubting if that's her type, because she seems more... well, I'm going to describe her first and see if...

Pick one. I'm curious as to where INFJs stand on this because I feel as if I'm on the fence most of the time. Other types are welcome to share in the comments. :)

It's okay, I wasn't offended or anything. Sometimes I just go on tangents. Don't mind me. :happy:

I do this too. It's actually something that most people do. Mirroring (psychology) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia I think that our Fe makes us especially sensitive to it. When I'm with...

This is a playlist I copied from 8tracks.com because that website only lets you play the list twice. It's songs I've been obsessed with lately. The theme is songs to listen to while staring at the...

http://coloradoblogging.com/cougar.gif I like to go on long runs in the woods, but when I go out too far from civilization, all I can think about is how no one would hear me scream if a mountain...

Well, just because you're able to come to a decision doesn't mean that you necessarily use Ni. This is why knowing Fi/Fe is important. Ne will generate possibilities, and in your case your Fi would...

I do it because I picked up a lot of my body language and habits from my dad, and he does it. However, I got caught in a couple of earthquakes last year and ever since then when people bounce...

You say you identify with INFJ thinking. I'm assuming that means you identify with some of the threads you read here? I would be careful about using that to choose your type. It's easy to forget that...

I'm actually quite similar too. Most of my ideas are inspired by outside influence or what others say. Honestly, I don't know what an idea that was purely my creation would look like... :confused:...

This happened to me and I wrote half of a book. Then, halfway through I got some criticism from someone who read it that made me lose inspiration entirely.

I know that I actually get creeped out by really strong Fe. Some people do it because they're genuinely friendly, but sometimes at first those people are hard to differentiate from the people who are...

I've been getting that feeling too...

I have to agree with Paradigm. You seem way more ISFJ than INFJ to me. I'm actually pretty confused as to where everyone is seeing your Ni... You focus a lot on very specific, factual things you like...'