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Diplomats INFJ

Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealists.

I really like glee, smash, big bang theory and csi new york. I also like heart of dixie, revenge and once upon a time.

Dear INFJ friend, I am disappointed and hurt that you would choose to use, the things i told in confidence to hurt me. You threw my vulnerabilities and fears back in my face. I have done nothing...

I am really do not like when I become vulnerable and let people in to my life. I tell them things about me that i never told anyone before....then they through it back in my face. It makes me never...

I suppose she may be going through some things in her life. I plan to take a step back from the relationship and then confront her at a later date. I do not want to burn a bridge and say things out...

Arieslilth: She tends to be very prideful. She has since, stopped talking to her male best friends since he has not reached out to her as much. He has choose to hangout with other people who are part...

Being an infj I understand your observations however I try to be their for her,she tends to push me away and she tends not to invest as much in our friendship as in others. She seems never to have...

I have a friendship with an infj female, who i have been friends with for a number of years. I realize she has changed. Usually my friend is very supportive but lately I realize she has changed. She...

Pitch perfect was a good movie.

I realize that my ESTJ mum taught my bro and I how to stand up for ourselves. She also taught us how to be more extroverted.

I also found out that my ex was also asking about me through a mutual friend. My question is why would you care how I am? Why would you want to know about my life? My friend thinks he is acting that...

I am grateful for my friends and family! I am also grateful for my pets. I am grateful for the love of those around me.

tachiko: I understand how heart broken you must feel. I just broke up with my lying, cheating, emotionally abusive ENTJ ex bf. Who was also my best friend while at least to me. I know how you feel. I...

x95 May be unaware (and sometimes uncaring) of how they come across to others I tend to care more about what people thing. I am a people pleaser. I am trying to change that. x95 May quickly...

It's hard to tell how your friend will react. In terms of forgiving you, some INFJ's tend to hold grudges and have intense tempers. I might say it will take a while for him to come to terms with the...

My parents have pointed out my emotional sensitivity as being odd. I suppose so. I had a male friend who is NT who refused to tell me what he thought of me as a person. He said i was sensitive and...

I like NT's and NF's. I dated an ENTJ and it was not that great. I have hope that I might get along even better with other people.

In_The_Fade: I can understand what it's like to have to explain things to others. At times the NT's and SJ's cannot take their own style of communicate. I find this very strange.

pneumoceptor: I use to to worry the way you do. These particular behaviors often lead to unhappiness and stress in your life. It tends to exacerbate your problems and it does not allow you fully...

I have a lot of eyelid space as well. You could say I have round / prominent eyes although my glasses make my eyes small.

I want to read the book first before I watch the movie!

I find my INFP friends are a good blend of practicality and idealism. They are very bold and creative!

@ In_The_Fade: I can relate to the bluntness. It required to deal with certain types that are dominate like the ESTJ and ENTJ or INTJ or ISTJ. I am blunt with these particular types otherwise I do...

I would have to say that my ISFJ brother has learned to better adapt components that are not part of his base personality. He has to be very outgoing for work, well until recently. An older family...

I do not think i would want to be a different personality type. I admire all or most of them. People like the one's that they can relate most too. I can relate to idealist(NF's) the most hence,...

I am trying not be greedy but sigh! I also want accessories for my kindle! I want a good case.

I am infj and my eye color is brown. If any one is interested my eye shape is oval/round!

I have learned to communicate with SJ's and NT's in direct and concise way with too much emotion helps. I find when you get into arguments or disagreements with both of these types they tend not to...

I like shopping for books and clothes sometimes but I only make it a habit when i really need something. I prefer shopping online.

The desserts pumpkin pie, rum cake or apple pie!

In my own personal experience my SJ parents taught me to be very practical and not give in so much to my feelings at times. They as taught me to try to be more outgoing especially my ESTJ mum. My...

I do this most of the the time. In most social situations!

I usually have a hard time trusting people. I do not give my trust to people easily whether it be love interest or friendship. I guess, I have been burned too many times by people. I am very guarded...

I have seen many threads which debate most infj's relationships to other types, whether we love them or hate them. Most of our parents, friends and peers tend to be of other typologies,hence my...

I also forgot to mention that also want a new purse or handbag and shoes. Some these gifts will rollover to my bday! Most of them will. I will probably forget about most of them.

I really just want some ebooks and regular paper backs and clothing. I want some cute dresses from forever 21 which i probably will not get. I only say that because i live overseas and might have to...

After I broke things off with my ex, he had the nerve to ask me if we can be friends. That's insane as far as I am concerned.

I just found out a month ago that my ex cheated on me. He started to have feelings for someone else and starting going out with them. He claims he never did anything sexual with said person. Its a...

I love to cook hence i love to eat. I currently eat like bird now and as a result have lost weight. Under stress though i will eat a lot of sweets. I have to balance that out. I also eat when i want...

It happens all the time.

Honestly this is the exact reason I have had problems with the enneagram system. The fact that it focuses on the fact that as humans we are so deeply flawed. What ever happen to elements of positive...

I have gotten 2,4,5 and 9 for the ennegram. I cannot really figure out the ennegram properly. I have to say about the type 4 I have never thought i must be unique. The lost childhood message i can...

One of my best girlfriends is INFJ or ENFJ.

I forgot to mention also learn to forgive others and myself. Its hard thing to learn because I am a perfectionist. The journey of self love is life long journey. I hope what I said helped!

My close friends are either idealist or intellectuals. Most are either INFP, or ENTP, INTJ and ENTJ

I am on the journey of cultivating self love. I would say that you have to view yourself as whole person versus singling out things that you either like or dislike about yourself. I also stop...

I am not sure if it matters but I am Black and INFJ. lol! Everyone is original. I am just glad to meet other INFJ regardless.

Just wondering if any infj ladies are into make up?

I think my style is still evolving. For right now its classic and eclectic. I like ruffled skits at times for hot summer days and important events like summer weddings, structured military inspired...

I am a bit of both. i have been the out going type as a teen and the more with drawn as a young adult. To me nothing is stereotypical when it comes to being an infj.

bearotter:I guess I have not found what I am good yet. I just never got lot of positive reinforcement. I try to be practical as possible and logical although I am told by SJ or NT my logic is...