'I feel that I could be better about empathizing with others. And I thought I would try to....but I think I'm at doorslam stage. Or I will be if I let myself care anymore. So caring less, and doing...
Yes I have. And apparently they have. And yet they walk into an emotional disaster with arms wide open.
That's what I'm doing. I'm just venting frustration.
I fundamentally disagree. I think venting feelings anonymously versus destroying any good relationship I have with them is much better moral option. And just because their behavior is stupid does...
I agree with the shoulds. I've just gotten worn down with being patient with someone to figure out their ambivalence.
But solid relationships are built on some sort of rationality or they don't thrive. And when you base it on mutual dependence it's kind of a problem. People really need to step back sometimes and...
Sometimes they think I'm a snob -- I've totally gotten that. Sometimes they mimic me, act uber jealous, or talk over me so that I can't be heard (I know that was about inferiority). I don't really...
Those aren't the people I judge so much. It's often people who are much more capable, who get into stupid relationships. And act complete flabbergasted that the relationship is so irrational, but...
I don't think I'm special necessarily, but I really work on trying to be an ideal in my life. I feel like this causes people to feel inferior to me even though I do not believe they are. Sometimes...
And the other problem I have is just thinking that the best strategy is to keep it to myself, but it's repressive at times.... :( I also actually think I know the reasons for it sometimes, like I...
I wasn't really suggesting that I could see the future. (I don't believe that that is possible.) I do however think INFJ intuition MAY be able to recognize patterns so thoroughly as to be somewhat...
David Bowie is not a pedo. Jareth is a fictional/fantasy character not from our world, and not bound by our ethics. Also, 15 was not an unusual age for a girl to be married even as recently as...
So I have been trying to understand INFJ judgment. I feel that this happens to me in certain difficult situations (i.e., I'm reading things into people's behaviors much against my own will). There...
It kind of amazes me how dark Jim Henson's movies tend to be. He's not really just the all-sunshines-and-roses hippie you'd think...but perhaps most hippies aren't that either. :)
I would advocate that this song is about seducing her. I think it really seems particularly sexual in nature.....
As The World Falls Down There's such a sad love Deep in your eyes. A kind of pale jewel Open and closed Within your eyes. I'll place the sky Within your eyes.
I recently got into Labyrinth again after having been away from it for awhile. After seeing it again, I was surprised by a lyric that said As the pain sweeps through, makes no sense for you, every...
So....I've been kind of having an issue. I like a guy who is in a relationship, but I became emotionally attached before that relationship started. The thing is he kind of seems ambivalent about...
I feel like much of this kind of thing is intuitive, I would tell you to aim more for feelings than for strategy without specific instances. Every relationship is an opportunity for trial and error...
I think what I was suggesting was somewhat different than what you were saying. Of course, I realize when I say the word seduce alarm bells go off, but there really is no better word for it. I am...
I'm guessing at the context here, but you could try Wanna help me do ________? And then wait for them to finish their answer. They might just be thinking out loud, and haven't gotten to the part...
Well there are things in here that remind me of myself. So just going on what I would do: - I say flirty things like nicknames just to be fun and appealing, but people that I have had close,...
Someone once told me that the kind of company I crave is that which stretches me personally. So hence, I find myself frequently lonely because I feel like I can't relate to the people I'm around. ...
I feel that I have the best luck finding groups of people working on projects to hang out with kind of useful. I would avoid becoming too versed in any ideological-based group, but you could...
Yep. Until I learned about my personality type, I was very worried about this. Growing up in a highly enforced social culture, my reluctance to socialize greatly distressed the Asian side of my...
Flag I think is drier than Phoenix. Partially the heat allows Phoenix to retain some humidity and I suspect that the number of swimming pools in the valley contribute. But when it precipitates, the...
Ya...Arizona has some issues, let me tell ya. The heat doesn't help either...at least in Phoenix. But I dislike Northern AZ being the opposite extreme. Yeesh.
Valandis I really like Utadu Hikaru, and Asian pop in general. I'm always amazed by how beautiful the lyrics are, sometimes even abstract, the Asian music I tend to hear. It's taken me a very...
Awesome songs, guys! I kind of want to make a playlist of these....
Also....Idahoans in Arizona are always so nice....
Some of my ancestors have their homestead in BC, but my dad's family is from Idaho....
Anybody think they've got a theme song? I found mine just a couple weeks ago. Daylight by Matt and Kim. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgBeu3FVi60 ...
Just wanted to point out that that whole thing was pretty much a joke (except what was in parentheses). I'm a pretty darn straight hetero female myself. I was trying to use my identity in a...
In your opinion, is the universe more chaotic or orderly? Identify, then discuss. :happy:
As an INFJ, I'm pretty cool that Ista and I will likely not be either lovers or best friends because of what has been stated thus far. My idealism says that I really shouldn't want to limit my...
clevernessofme Wait a second. Are you using Korean character crying faces or am I just imagining it?
No, thankfully. Someone up here showed me a picture of like 5 of them on the floor of their dining room in their house in Gilbert. We get more weird-ass bugs that I would have no idea where to...
I've heard this mentioned from several people that Shane seems arrogant. Somehow I don't think that's the whole story. I have been told that I seem arrogant, but when I have been accused of...
Wow. Northern AZ here. It's 37 degrees tonight....
Whereabouts in AZ? (generally speaking)
So far, know I've been attracted to ENFP, and ISFJ. There may have been an INFx, ENFx, and IxTx....I think...
Spring where I live is gale-force winds and often persisting winter cold just prior to summer in mid-May. Though this year, the wind and cold have lasted till even now. Other than that....I...
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One of my closest friends is an INFP. The relationship is bizarrely easy.
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loser (nothing personal) ;)
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Also I feel that I should add, that I don't really find much of life really boring but am trying to recognize that that might matter to you. The one ENFP I knew seemed to have a chronic need for...'
