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Diplomats INFJ

Quiet and mystical, yet very inspiring and tireless idealists.

'Dear K, You make me want to want. And to open up... First, to undress my mental stitches. But...

Dear ENFP, I still seethe inside, sometimes it's a placid kind of seething, other times it bubbles up in a cauldron. I miss you, I hate you, and I love you. --INFJ

I'll boil easier than you, crush my bones into glue I'm a go-getter... The fever I feel, the fake and the real I'm a go-getter My world just expands, things just break in my hands I'm a...

Caught in the riptide I was searching for the truth There was a reason I collided into you https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyLwf0SecLU

Dear K, Some animal part of me still feels the raw, silent, insane level of hostility, and then another part of me just wishes to not give a f***. Moving on, INFJ

Touch me and then turn away Put your hands into the flame Tell me if you feel this pain 'cause I don't want to be your ball and chain Read more: Active Child - Hanging On Lyrics | MetroLyrics ...

Communication + kicking their ass! :kitteh:

Sometimes, ENFPs have to realize that hate is someone's pent up frustration and anger being projected at them; it's like emotional vomit. When someone is actively hating on you, you can either remove...

Dear God, It seems ridiculous for me to be angry at you, but I can feel you smiling at the twist of my fate; it feels intentional on your part, this script of my life. What must I do but accept....

Dear ENFP, Sometimes I get moments of clarity outside of my tenderness, and I realize just how different we are--and the abasement and humiliation returns. I want to live past Pluto where...

I'm in this strange daze. I want to snap out of it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zlot0i3Zykw

Dear ENFP, It would have been masochistic of me to stay. You'd constantly feel uncomfortable about your lovers and would have to hide them from me. I'd constantly feel uncomfortable about...

Consideration can be a very personal thing. It's different from manners which is more generalized and has a broader application like rules of etiquette. The special component to consideration is that...

Some sensitivities must be kept, others must be overcome; knowing the difference between the two, is what maintains the integrity and true nature of the person.

Two wrongs don't make a right. I should not have been so harsh. Sigh. :frustrating:

Dear K, I am ashamed of my rude email. I lost my cool. Sigh, your self-congratulatory tone as well as your sexual joke about your graphic novel really pushed me over the hill. Nonetheless,...

It's apparent I love someone when I can't stop talking about them with others. I'll find some reason to bring them up. All signs and conversational markers take me to him.

Dear God, Just give me strength. You are my only strength. I have none in me. Sigh. I've considered tapping out of this game of life, it would be easy, I think of it daily. But I don't want to...

I know I have this bad habit of leaving people when I feel insecure/anxious and it becomes unbearable. I break up with others before someone else breaks up with me. Before they reject me. I am...

It's a privilege to know the haal of someone's heart.

You hide your lovers from me, I hide that I love you. How considerate of both of us. Silence makes an elegant solution.

I'm hopeless. :

Yech, must not turn into a bitter old woman. ^_^;

Feeling melancholic. I've noticed I feel this way unless there's a major change or major shift in my experiences. I'm thinking of you and I am wondering what made me so unique in your eyes such that...

This is simultaneously endearing and wise. Kudos. ^_^

I feel this sudden shot of vibrant, peppy, super duper charged energy. ^_^

You casually humiliate me and then expect me to reply. Don't try to train me to become masochistic. Someone once taught me, a busy man is a bad man.

This is so beautiful, btw.

On repeat. - On and on the strain, Beauty from afar, Help is on it's way, I know you love to fall. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vjXaddTMecc

Dear H, You are the obvious choice. There is no valid reason for me to refuse you. If I had my head on right, I'd jump into your arms and say yes. But I can't. I know, I know. May God...

Dear ENFP, The hallmark of our communication was an uncensored space. It's not like that anymore. I can feel you tip-toe around topics, and there is an opaque cloud between your life and...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BO3gEKPLOTs

I don't like feeling purposeless or like I'm a nomadic floater. Unstructured time is frightening for me.

Just unbounded confusion and sadness. Not to mention, biting anxiety. Urgh, 2015 has seen some highs and lows.

Dear ENFP, I'm not blaming you. It's my own melancholia too. It gets triggered whenever you are here with me. Just let me go. I'm not sure if I can keep resisting whenever I see you pop up,...

Dear K, As each day passes and you don't reply, I feel this sinking sense of ... disappointment, even though I claim I have no expectations anymore. I'm not sure why. But you're on the run from...

Dear K, You only miss me only when things aren't going right. Sigh. Don't write to me. Honestly, INFJ

Dear S, My gut said to flee. I hope that you can forgive me. Sincerely, INFJ

Dear all, I just don't feel anything anymore. No excitement, no joy, blankness -- except for the dull, imprecise and diffused sadness, like white noise in the background. INFJ

Dear K, I'm not okay when you're around. I'm okay when you're not. That's a problem. Sigh, INFJ

I've been in your shoes. But, add -- the first person I talked to in the morning and the last, for over a year. Sigh. The long-distance killed it.

For the first time you ask her, make it a very low threshold for her to say no. Don't do dinner, don't make her self-conscious, go to lunch or something in the day time, (does she like art? what is...

Dear INFP, Please don't love me so. I enjoy your misty-eyed idealism, but I don't want to spend the rest of my life with you, fused to you in that way you want me to be fused to you. And...

All this running around Trying to cover my shadow An ocean growing inside All the others seem shallow https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KM9TUy77iAI

Dear God, I'm at that point where I intend to relinquish men/romance in order to grow. Please be with me. Love and determined, INFJ

Experiencing neutral kindness within oneself is healing. Neutrality, not being punitive or distancing. Neutrality as an extended form of empathy.

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Noticed this -- a man must bear strong evidentiary proof principally, and also specifically as it relates to you, before passing through and dwelling in your heart.

- Offering a meta-love; thinking about their thoughts, and relating that back to them. - People exist in orbitals of privacy for me -- the closer I place them to me, the richer and more intimate the...'