'There's something special, why else do I keep coming back or he keeps coming back?
We never slept together but we date and we have done some non-platonic things, there is also a lot of chemistry between us, and attraction. DEF not friends haha
So then what is this I have now, lust? Feelings? A void?
Glad you enjoy. I always am one for online discussions :) And I don't know if this is really love, I don't think so, but I don't know what love really is anyway, I think we are just two people who...
We dated on and off. but for religious reasons I can never marry him. Nor do I think he would marry me or anyone else, he's not that kind of man. But I met him almost 3 years ago, we ar always on and...
The test was administered by a professional at a prestigious university. Took weeks to complete. Doesn't sound like BS to me.
So what exactly is crystalized intelligence? I took an intellectual assessment test and I scored in the 98th percentile for crystalized intelligence which means I am VERY bright in certain ways...but...
I get very upset and also very happy-am VERY affected from my environment. Example I am talking to this guy and it makes me absolutely giddy with joy and smiling. But just a few days ago, this other...
She told me I am too smart for my own good and also that she can't tell sometimes if I am just saying what she wants to hear or if I mean it. Because I am VERY good at understanding my feelings...
I get this all the time. Stop reading into things so much. Stop thinking so much. Stop analyzing so much. But I CAN'T HELP IT! Try sitting in my brain for a day. Then you'll get it. Anyone else...
Unless I REALLY like you from before, when I have things on my mind I find it very hard to socialize with new people. Or maybe it's an introvert thing? Lately I am starting to feel worn out from...
Of course the hard one :) What are you guys?
I get so fed up, I am so sensitive, I get so caught up on things, sometimes in social situations people tell me I seem quiet or upset, like there is a lot on my mind, because there is. I take things...
Does anyone else have this issue? When you have to devote a lot of time to something you hate that is a task you can't do it? I am pushing through the end of law school and I went because my dad...
Here's the thing I ways like older men who are ubloving. Always older.
Does this happen to anyone else? I grew up with a very harsh father feeling unloved, put down, unworthy. Always. So much. He still does it. I always seek love from men who don't try to know me, don't...
My male friend is extremely intuitive. He told me that talking to me alone he can tell I am extremely deep and insightful and amazing. But he also can tell that I hide my feelings because I clam up...
I'm fearful of true intimacy. I'm so scared to open up my feelings to people, even my friends say that I hide my feelings behind a light shallow surface. I'm so scared that my partner will not love...
I'm a very passionate person
Sometimes I get frustrated with my type but at the end of the day other people appreciate my insight, think I am very smart, my world is colorful, I can always keep myself occupied, I am a great...
I take things VERY personally, it doesn't help that I grew up being blamed for everything. I have a lot of issues in these areas
My friends who are EXTX tell me Be more outwardly focused. Focus on the world around you so much. Get over things. It's up to you to change and get over your emotional baggage That's just not...
I definitely don't think he's a douche canoe or uncaring. I like to be texted every one to two hours. He works like crazy lately and is so anxious. But when I'm with him he is definitely considerate...
I am very sensitive and I need a lot of attention from my boyfriend and I am pretty needy. I really like him but I'm not feeling wanted enough. I feel like he's too passive and doesn't care enough...
Yes I am super sensitive and stressed myself which doesn't help. Boyfriend (not for that long but more than a month) is acting very withdrawn since yesterday afternoon. He has a lot of stress from...
I trusted and I was lied to, deceived, disappointed. It hurts. It's scary. Now I have walls around my heart. Even though I have a new boyfriend who so far deserves my trust, and is way more honest...
30 but only one very long ones.
I am usually a sucker and accept apologies readily. This girl who tends to annoy me a lot more and more as the years go on, was trying to interject into my relationship and tell me what I should...
I like someone who tries to understand me and what I am really thinking, even though I don't even know how to put half of it into tangible words sometimes, my mind is always running a million miles...
My boyfriend told me that he hopes he is not being too harsh on me but I have a very self-defeating attitude sometimes. He told me You are in school, you made it so far, at a young age, you can...
Interesting...I am definitely more introverted than he is. He thinks he is shy but I Think he is quite outgoing. And he is loud socially, maybe shy with striking up a convo, etc. Anyhow I really do...
Very. I can feel other peoples' emotions. I get very emotional but I am not always expressive about it, I tend to go silent instead unless I really feel comfortable. My new boyfriend has been...
My boyfriend and I are both HSPs (Highly Sensitive Person) We understand each other and I tend to be very sensitive but I sometimes think he is worse than me! He got upset because I didn't text...
What are your thoughts and experiences on their compatibility.
Yes it is very hard and I struggle because I've had my own conflicts and have done things I am ashamed of that I would rather hide because they did not involve another person and I see it as a matter...
I grew up with parent who always criticized me and put me down and invalidated my feelings. This was very hurtful and to this day I have trouble expressing myself openly because I fear a lack of...
I attract a lot of men who seem to want emotional intimacy pretty fast. Why is this? Does anyone else have this happen?
I met someone new. At first he was kind of stand-offish-I thought he was maybe not very friendly or just didn't like me very much. Then he spoke to me for real and he was very nice. He admitted he is...
It seems like I either fall fast or not at all. And I attract men who are emotional and sensitive as well. I guess we get each other more? They also seem to fall fast.
I was talking to her about a new guy and analyzing everything like if we get together then X but maybe Y...etc.. She told me I always analyze things too much and I need to live in the here and now...
With my ex and in past relationships and friendships as well... I sometimes held in my resentment and eventually I just got so upset that I cut off the relationships without much explanation. In...
Sangoire - it made me feel bad because it made me feel guilty for leaving him and it made me miss having a boyfriend. But despite that I knew I still was not regretting my decision to break up. I am...
TimeGoesBy: so true, I am very proud of myself for recognizing signs and walking away fast. Even in our long chat I realized I have no desire to go back to him. I may have led him on a bit but he...
So my recent ex facebook chatted me last week. We had a talk and I told him it was over but I hope no hard feelings he said well it was sudden that you broke up with me. I guess it was pretty...
My friend told me I see the good in people too much (she's an ESTJ) because she saw my ex as a selfish controlling jerk (which sadly he was) but I saw a wounded soul who needed some TLC-until his...
He did want a relationship very fast -within two weeks we had like 8 dates and he asked me to be exclusive and he had not even told me a LOT about his past (like divorced) He was immediately sweet...
Even though I thought my now ex was acting disrespectful and controlling I knew that he had a lot of emotional baggage which probably explained some of his behavior. I knew he was sad and knowing he...
So relieved, yet so shaken. For the past few weeks my boyfriend of several months has been showing sides of him I don't like. Last week he started freaking me out and I realized he had become...
How do you feel in a relationship? What type of partner are you? I think being a sensitive idealist means that I have too many feelings for my partner to ever understand. If there is something...
I have these problems. Combine being sensitive and bad history and you get a panicky girl. I was terrified my boyfriend was just out to play with my heart just to manipulate and use me. So I kept my...'
