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Diplomats INFP

Poetic, kind and altruistic people, always eager to help a good cause.

'Although aspects of my personality are a little too close to Colette's for comfort :laughing: oh, um, sorry guys, I don't want you to worry about me!

So much love for ToS.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XfCEAz9LBsg How I miss this band.

I'm going to write a dangerously sp post here about food/drink. Because food is both literally and metaphorically what keeps me going. - I have a pretty sp-ish response to hunger including...

Perhaps, but if you view it as something you want to distance yourself from, then you're more likely to talk about it in somewhat depersonalised terms? We all do it with things we dislike about...

In regards to the milkiest milk...full fat or bust, right? Right? I've had a somewhat similar experience (oh hai 1-wing and very sp parents who are somewhat disapproving of impulsivity) in my...

Seriously, who named that team? They might as well just go ahead and make their mascot a tampon.

I've dabbled in such things in the past (as far as scientists go I'm probably a little kooky). I haven't worked out what it is about this world yet but I'm inclined to believe that there are set...

Some of the best game conversation since HK-47 :D

Really enjoying this thread. I'm currently going through another 'am I sx/sp or sp/sx' so I think that this will help. Or maybe just obscure things even more, I dunno. I have in the past used...

Oh, but the fact that you're a real man is just the biggest turn on for me. I mean, I just can't help myself, I just get enveloped by all sorts of thoughts. Like thinking about the seductive,...

Yes, you got me, I'm as gay as a window and I'm just so turned on by your primal manliness. It's all I think about. Take me now, loverboy.

Blystone, you could've just posted a gif of you thumping your chest and windmilling your penis. It would've saved us 8 pages of drivel.

This is rather how I feel. I don't really associate with the sheer recklessness of classic sx, but I am 95 % sure I am. I can be quite heavy on the 1-wing sometimes and think I became scared/ashamed...

I'm an INFP 9w1 - 5 - 2 (sx/sp). I don't know if I can say which of my traits are due to my tritype and which to other aspects of me, but I'll try. Without being too general. - I'd think - and...

I do like Cult of Luna quite a bit...Amenra are definitely in the Neurosis/CoL template, but they've taken it and distilled it down into something very focussed. Phenomenal live band too.

That reminded me a lot of OSI, especially with the electronics. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JxI7aKjJtrQ

I honestly don't think I've ever simultaneously felt so amused yet so irrationally filled with rage. I hate your username, I hate the shitty font you use in your sig, I hate the shit-eating smugness...

My superego is telling me to laugh it off and be the better person, my id is screaming PUNCH THAT CUNTBUCKET IN THE FACE, so I'll go ahead and nod and agree with you without using any sort of...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tH71rARl4jY I'm going to go with unhealthy sx-dom 2. count stars and wishes fall now wish the same for me for you and me i'd give my life to make us whole...

Mm, I'm not certain, but I would've thought that - at least when healthy - sp/sx would be a sort of controlled fire. I'm not entirely sure though. I'm about 85 % sure that I'm an sx/sp but I have a...

@Snowflake Whisperer Hey, I'm 95 % sure that I'm a 9w1 - 5 - 2 (definitely a 9w1). Also sx/sp and INFP (for the record). What are you having the most trouble with working out? I'll try to answer...

I do it a lot when I'm happy, and it's almost always playful. My sister and I are terrible with our parents, haha. My parents do sometimes find it difficult to know how serious I'm being because I...

Half Chinese (of murky origin) via Malaysia, half English. Of course, in typical me fashion, I've wanted to learn Japanese for ages and am planning to start this year. It'd throw another wrinkle...

I've found the Enneagram immensely useful over the last 6 months and it's really helped me to improve my overall self-awareness and understand the motivation behind my behaviour. Looking back over...

586 doesn't exist, can only be from one of each of [234], [567], [891].

@Phoenix_Rebirth Good questions! 1. How easy it's for you to get out of your comfort zone? Do you struggle to get out of it or does it come naturally for you? This really depends on several...

In times gone by, I've had to be absolutely certain that someone liked me before making a move (and have spurned many an opportune moment in the process). Even when it's been really really obvious,...

I don't really agree tbh, there are thousands upon thousands of 4-letter/Enneagram personality type combinations (that number depending on whether you want to throw in instinctual variants and/or...

Neurosis Amenra Altar of Plagues Opeth Meshuggah Mastodon I have a soft spot for Immortal, Bloodbath, Godflesh, Celeste, Melvins, Isis, The Ocean amongst others. I'm not very kvlt.

Ack, this is just like me, haha. My dad's an ISTJ 9(w1?) and my mum's probably an ISTJ 6. Both of them are strongly sp first, and I suspect that they're both sp/so. I don't think they really knew...

FYI, I was birthed by a 39-year old and there's nothing wrong with fridge.

Hmm, a few things: i) You're pretty young. Unfortunately, it means that a lot of the guys you date will also be young and, in all likelihood, pretty immature/undeveloped, hence people telling you...

I'd go wherever you would go. O hai 2002.

I definitely enjoy the taste of alcohol, but yeah, the burning does take some getting used to. That said, good quality spirits tend to burn way less than cheaper stuff. Oh_no_she_DIDNT Wild_bird...

I am a serious sleep grinder - I had to get a dental splint made to stop me wrecking my teeth (my jaw muscles are stacked too, apparently). Hope yours isn't a long term thing at all, but you should...

I definitely agree with this, although it seems to be one of those things which works better in theory than in practice...some people do find the concept of it weird.

Wanting to hug someone who's several thousand miles away.

This is very me. I daydream about quite real-world things, although it flips between hypothetical situations and ideas like you stated. A bit OT, the East-West thing is interesting, definitely. ...

Yay, more ScINFPS! (sorry, that was terrible). I did my undergrad in chemistry and I'm currently attempting to finish my postgrad in materials science - my project is based in renewable energy and...

Currently rocking out to Altar of Plagues in my underwear with a tear in my eye as I'm seeing them play their last ever UK show this evening. All good things must end (especially when I've decided...

I wouldn't overthink matches in terms of personality types. Ultimately, you get on with who you get on with...you'll come across ignorant and uncaring INFPs and understanding ESTJs. I was thinking...

But most restaurants aren't that formal. I generally dislike dress codes in restaurants/institutions, although if I'm going somewhere really nice I'll smarten up a little (not too much though, I'm...

@Ronin_dreamer - Okami wins thread. P.S. I have a canvas print of that picture on my wall. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lH39f2-qHo0 For anyone struggling with redemption and growth. And...

I love dining out. Food is one of the biggest parts of my life...I cook a fair bit too, but there are a lot of things that I can't cook myself without a lot of hassle (such as a bowl of pho or...

I'm into sludge, black metal, metal, ambient and progressive metal, including: Neurosis, Amenra, Altar of Plagues, Refused, Isis, Wolves in the Throne Room, Oathbreaker, Oceansize, Opeth,...

Finding a good flatmate is way harder than finding a good friend. I've had a really good flatmate this year and I still kind of want to live on my own (although doing so in London is so bloody...

YUP. One conversation that I have often: Are you coming for lunch or what? Yeah, just let me finish this album

Siara - thanks for taking the time to reply to everyone! I think that definition of self-confidence is a good one. Belief in one's abilities and believing one to be without flaws (and to aim for...

Have you talked to your friend about it? I know it sucks to invest in someone without receiving much in return. Been on both sides of that one. What @cosmia says is totally right though...he's...'