'Hi guys.. I'm trying to get over a nasty break up. It's been a month. I was doing fine when I was going through an anger phase, but now I'm just depressed and highly emotional. I don't know what...
Sort of 'zoom' out on the world or perspective.... also to switch on and off emotions.
Could you explain more please?
Guys, I need your advice.. I think I'm in that phase where I'm going back and forth about whether to try to reconcile and talk to him about getting back into a relationship, but on renewed terms....
Trying to. My ego is definitely damaged. :( I just want to make him realise that I'm worth it as a partner. Ugh. No use at all going about this.
Hahhahaha ... logicâ„¢. Well I started accidentally thinking about the possibility of us getting back into a relationship on renewed terms and that got me all fudged up again T^T. Why do I want...
Thanks! I don't get it either to be honest. I really don't freaking get it. I call bullsheet on the whole personal development part. I reckon it was a logical excuse that he wanted to hear for...
So I've been letting it out by singing songs. I used to do this and I had people sing along with me in school, but nope, now I'm all alone.. I decided to record it and slap it on the internet. ...
HRMM ... not really, he wasn't the kind to necessarily intentionally start conversations. He's more of hey I haven't spoken to this dude in awhile... so I'll send him a message or lets hang.
Ahahhaa yea I knew what you meant. I felt the same way about what you said therefore it was sort of a dramatised reaction to that.
It's odd that this isn't my first encounter with INTPs. I've had one in the past too. He was muuuuch older than I was and I was a juvenile ENFP at the time. Well at the time I wasn't 'smart' enough...
I'm sorry to hear that. Ugh all the feels. I'M SORRY I SCARED YOU WITH MY LOVE. Is it an INFP problem? ._.
bahahha.. To be honest, the concept of it sounds good. BLARGH. But it was him that I loved, not the idea of being in a relationship. darnit.
I wonder if we could throw our own cozy virtual environment for that. I'm assuming everyone in this post is across the world from everyone else. I have a bunch of tools to use for LDRs that never got...
Spoken like a true INTP... or Thinker at least. :tongue: Oh well.
awesome! it was the right way round when I uploaded it though! ._.
Yeah, I guess I kinda expected him to put as much as I would have as well. Thing is, should he have expressed that throughout and managed the expectations as well, it wouldn't have been such a hard...
I've been going out a lot. Practically spend my time with my friends outside home (I have a very stressful family to deal with). I suppose in a sense talking it out here on the forum helps too. I do...
Probably not. I just can't. All those empty promises at the beginning and how I have been let down. D; It's so much easier to be just plain angry. Well he seems to be having a ball of a time...
hells yea. I scared him away with my conviction and passion. GAAAAARGH!
Awh, *hug* All us hurt INFPs should have a little party together and just take it all out, go to a trampoline park or bouncy castle then go crazy.. or something.
My contention about the matter is basically wouldn't you consider relationships as part and parcel of personal growth? I understand that maybe I had placed really high expectations (different from...
*hug back* thanks :)
As much as I've been wanting to do that, I never have 'enough' to be physical about it. I ended up not eating much and staying up late till I just go flat and burn out. I vent a whole lot and rage...
Thanks for all your responses, it's highly encouraging. It's just all incredibly painful right now. On his social media it seems like he's doing fine. I'm really fluctuating between absolute...
I'd like to believe that. I think that's the biggest underlying thing here. Did he really like me? Or was it just convenient for him. But at this point, I just don't have enough emotional...
Hahah I probably should've included a tag on vent. I think a part of me is looking for an answer to whether he bothered as much as I did or not. What's going on in his mind now.. etc. It's annoying...
Nice try
I can't stop thinking and replaying what we had and the fact that he's probably going to move on far quicker than I am. He is an INTP. The story that we had together was typical fairytale story - we...
I'm more of a friends with benefits person, although after my first proper relationship I don't think I would want otherwise anymore.
I'd consider myself a Buddhist, but with elements of syncretistic beliefs. It's hard to find anyone who's interested in this kinda talk, especially being relatively young. D:
318506 Ah damn, how do you rotate this? Here ya go! Necklace is from my adopted grandmother from Borneo when I had an exchange volunteer programme there last year.
so, you may care for him, but also care for yourself. please. That's what I really have to remember.
I recently discovered that I get lazy explaining things to people because everything in my mind is way more vivid and I'm pretty sure people won't understand it.
unlikely
OHHH. okay. Got it. haha. I've always loved those little yellow things. :3
Why so?
yes. I need to remember that I'm posting in the INTP forum. Have to pay closer attention to grammar.
That's brilliant! We're changing the design to this : http://farm5.static.flickr.com/4132/4965440209_bb1b47d45c.jpg No longer the huge minion cake thingy
That's.. um.. out of topic.
Woah, thanks for the ideas guys! Keep em' coming.
Hey guys! My class is going to have a farewell party for our chemistry/biology tuition teacher next Wednesday. He calls us his 'minions' (the one from the movie Despicable Me), so we're...
hahaha.. To his personality I guess.
Thanks for your input on this. I've done all the steps that you mentioned - identifying why I'm attracted to his company and Why he makes me feel like crap. I'm also trying my best to try to avoid...
Here's the deal : He's a friend whos very much older than I am. I take him as my mentor in life and I confide in him a lot. I also try my best to be a good friend. He's an INTP - a very difficult...
The thing is, it's clear that I value him more than he does of me. I don't even know why I'm still friends with him or why I care so much.
Thanks guys for all your help at the moment, I'll reply each of you soon in this thread when I have the time. Perhaps in another day or so.. I like all your suggestions and they make lots of sense....
Let's just say that I'm friends with a person who I really care for right now. But in the past few months, all he has been doing is making me feel like crap all the time. I'm quite emotionally...
I made the biggest mistake by confiding in someone. I don't really think it was a mistake, I just confided in someone about how I felt and stuff. (was going through a rough time) He was an INTP. I...'
