MBTI

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Analysts INTJ

Imaginative and strategic thinkers, with a plan for everything

'Still think he's a logical response to the disfunctional state of party politics in the USA. I like how he doesn't give a shit even about the reputation of politicians from his own party. I think he...

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Currently playing Deus Ex: Revision on realistic. All I can say is I'm happy for the magical power of quick save/load. Heard Arragghhggghh more than I can count by now. If you don't know where...

Carl Rogers identified that we tend to have an ideal self and an actual self (our current self-image). If there's a discrepancy between what we are and what we think we should be, and it's not...

Shopping groceries and cooking is very relaxing/fun to me, so I'm also the one taking care of the food most days.

By accident mostly, spices and condiments. Never can quite remember what I still have in the house - I might still buy soy sauce even if I already have like 3-4 bottles in the house cause I'm not...

Depends, if it's a small-talk situation, anything to get them talking about something: So, what's your story? How do you know X? Do you have any family? What do you do for a living? Do...

People being there at my actual point of death is not that important, but I hope I won't be truly alone at any point in my life though. I like me-time and I can spend quite some time by myself quite...

My eyebrows are pretty expressive.

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Stepping out of a roller-coaster half-way though.

Super contra - you have to get into like a zen-like trance to finish this game. Not on hard though. Then you have to be a deity. Ikaruga - I love how this game looks, but Ikaruga is pretty damn...

Tradition can be a good way to save time and free up brainspace for more important things. Also it can create some rhythm in otherwise pretty unpredictable life. It's nice if there's a few things we...

Usually something I really don't want to do, is due in a short time and instead of doing it I have been wasting time.

Generally yes. But I think more about whether I like hanging out with people than the other way around.

If you don't have patience for the slow intro, skip to ~1:00. Masterpiece. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cufX_dH_MeA

I think I generally don't really care about my image to others. To the point where I really actively have to think about it so it doesn't become a problem. More influential on me is my...

I was that kid in class who's hand almost broke the sound barrier going up every time the teacher asked does anyone know....

That is pretty accurate. On work days, fitting quality blue or grey jeans + belt + slim-fit shirt or a polo. Shirts are almost always white or blue. And a leather jacket. If I'm on holiday...

It's a bonus. Though what I notice is that when I first meet someone I really take note of their physical appearance a lot, but after meeting them a few times it becomes less and less noticeable....

No.

1. What wakes you up most mornings (alarm, pets, kids, etc.)? Biological clock? Most mornings I wake up 3 minutes before the alarm goes off, somehow. 2. Which historical figure not named Adolf...

They're exhausting. On very rare occasions, when I'm having a lot of excess energy, I have enjoyed myself in festivals/clubs. And since my partner likes to get a chance to dance I sometimes just suck...

Series: - Westworld - Game of Thrones - Breaking bad - The Crown - Suits (although I didn't really like season 5). - The first 13 episodes of prison break - The first season of Heroes -...

I treat them mostly like just general politeness/trying to be pleasant. So I say thanks, I appreciate it and don't think much else of it. Exceptions: - It is a compliment from someone who I...

I have thought about this as well. I think spite is often an unhealthy way of dealing with being hurt, feeling insecure, or having suffered some negative feeling because of another person. People...

I just quit my job (because I'm moving to a different city and found a new job there). I never quit a job before, worked almost 10 years here. Feels really weird.

Pretty much spot on. Basically parading around superior morality in any form just make me stop wanting to interact with someone. It feels less like trying to help and more about establishing your own...

I'm picky too, and not my point. I just get annoyed by people with a holier than thou attitude.

Cheek kissing, as a form of saying hi or congratulating. Especially air kisses are weird. Makes you wonder why we even pretend in the first place if they're going to be fake anyway.

No, I think authenticity is at a different level - it influences whether you respect someone as a person regardless of what they actually do. Condoning is about actions. Like, you can say I condone...

See, that is exactly what I'm baffled about. To me, being honest and unabashed about doing bad things doesn't make it right. It baffles me how the human mind works in this way. If you are a bad...

I've noticed lately how important authenticity is as a trait. I used to think that authenticity means mostly being honest. What I've noticed though is that being honest is not enough to come across...

I am a great explainer as long as I just talk to people who understand what I'm saying.

I remember faces, names is the problem. There was a study that showed forgetfulness can be a sign of an efficient brain: https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2007/06/070608143123.htm

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I am also almost worried at a daily basis that I might screw up my career (or that I've already done it). Choosing a career is hard but I'll say one thing - most big organizations (including...

What is it that you are currently the most worried/scared about? (unless you have no worries at all).

Win wars instead of battles.

One, you'll never be quite ready with your career. Once you have a stable job, you'll want to work hard to make a promotion. Once you manage to get to a high-paying stable job, it might not be in the...

That is great advice! And I will definitely try it out.

Check your assumptions before acting.

Stress: Physically, maybe breath in and out slowly a couple of times, once in a while. Sometimes I go running or cycling, I find after a while of exercise you kind of naturally drift away from what...

Good advice and nice breakdown, thanks. I have the same main insecurity. I like the point about awareness. I think it helps to realize the problem is mostly in your own head.

Often it's meetings with clients or sr. management. I don't usually have that strong of a relation with the meeting leader. And when the meeting leader gives me a chance to talk it's usually out of...

Currently loving Suits. Mostly because Harvey is a boss. Somewhere close to end of season 3.

I often get the remark that I come across as calm, analytical, strong on content but people doubt whether I can actually get my ideas across in meetings because they worry I can't assert myself -...

Do you have insecurities? If yes, how do you keep them in check, how do you make sure they don't affect your relations?

Well, I just made the hardest IQ test I've made in my life, for an assessment. I've never had problems with them in the past but this one really has me nervous about how I did :sad: Also: I don't...'