'SP/SX/SO here. I am not in a relationship. *Alone time = oxygen. * I have a hard time setting boundaries i.e. breathing space, cos i want to spend time with the other person and i feel an...
I agree that not developing the secondary function can cause problems. I wasn't able to develop my Te until I was 29. although, I wasn't a conspiracy theorist in the slightest, I felt defenseless...
ha! that is true! I once worked in an office with all ESF's. We processed felony paperwork. They all decided that it was serious subject matter, but having fun and making the atmosphere light and...
yeah, I know there are dating sites out there, I've been a member of match.com and i'm on a few free ones. I haven't found anyone yet, so I figured it couldn't hurt to ask on here. At least I can't...
I've been reading Please Understand Me II, and it points out very well why INTJ's and ENFP's personalities work together. Problem is, I dont know any ENFP guys. take a looksie at my profile, if...
as a general rule of thumb, I feel like everyone can see that I have a crush on said person, even though I'm not doing anything that would warrant that kind of suspicion. So I try to act as cool and...
There's a guy I kinda like, I think he is an INTJ/ISTJ/INTP not sure yet. he lives 6 hours away from me, but our families live in the same town, which is where we met, my sister played matchmaker...
my days vary somewhat, and I like it that way. I usually wake up between 8:30 and 9:30 (i'm supposed to sleep till 9 to help my adrenal glands) eat breakfast, maybe watch tv 10:00 - 11:00 take a...
a question for discussion: I am interested in seeing if a theory might be true: or if anyione else has any theories about this: what are the rules? how are they determined? what things are...
I understand what you mean. what I said may have come across as...rude? legalistic maybe. I probably should have included that when I said that, I said it humbly, yet simply. I have no intention...
I don't understand why people think they have to get married in a temple or a church or whatever- can someone explain this to me?
I agree, I don't think the government should be involved in marriage- but the idea and institution of marriage was created by Yahweh/God- not human beings, so the one who makes the rules gets to...
I don't know what to do... everything seems to be going downhill ever since we hit the one-year mark. I'm trying to give him his space but I can't neglect my feelings as much as he wants me to......
I came across this article, I don't know if anyone else has seen it, but I thought it was interesting because it contradicts the usual mbti theory I've read that say's the INTJ's dominant function is...
my sister and I had one of those cheap pools, then it broke, and it left a big circle of dirt which was great for making mudpies with my mom's old tupperware. I really wanted to be able to build a...
my mom is an ISFJ enneagram 2>1>6. She is codependent, pessimistic, and has low self esteem. my dad is an INFP enneagram 9>3>6. He is calm, quiet and a typical mediator type 9. he has more...
sometimes I go back and forth between do I prefer extroverts or introverts? I know some extrovert guys that are just crazy all the time, and they exhaust me just talking to them. and I know some...
LOL, I had a craving for a Boston Creme Doughnut the other day, really bad. I got a pamela's gluten free white cake mix, put choc. frosting on it, and poured vanilla pudding on top. all together,...
As an INTJ/P, I haven't ventured much into the SP realm, but you guys seem pretty cool. the SJ system is really annoying! I guess what ISFP's and INTJ's have in common is that we quietly live our...
eh, sometimes people take too long to say what they are saying, and when i know what it is they are trying to say I almost can't help but interrupt, especially if they've started repeating...
I've always been artistic. I started out majoring in biochem/genetics but there wasn't much room to be creative - I would have had to go through grad school and be someone's lab toady until I could...
I'm and INTJ/P - I thought I was an INFx for a long time. I am sensitive, but I don't really show it as far as emotions go. I am sensitive to color, shadow, light, patterns, discrepancies,...
yup. on things I'm really interested in, I research for days, weeks, years. I want to understand it in it's entirety. the internet has saved my sanity. seriously.
i totally agree. we can have a wonderful sense of humor, be artistic and/or musical, humble, etc. we rock. we aren't robots.
I'm an INTP/J. I consider myself attractive, but never notice guys looking at me. It's usually my sister that tells me hey that guy was checking you out! and I'm like huh? I think the misnomer is...
I second that. :)
I know you are getting a lot of info thrown at you as to what it might be, so I don't want to get really specific on you in case gluten is not the problem. But, if it IS, I had quite a few off...
I know how you feel, believe it or not. I have Celiac disease- a very common, yet very misdiagnosed disease. I had the same terrible headaches and nausea like you, along with some other symptoms-...
well I know that INTJ's are confident people, and I am confident in most areas of my life. But when it comes to friends or relationships I'm not confident, and I wish I was. I keep expecting my...
I am a graphics assistant/editor for an antiques newspaper. I *really* enjoy it because I get to use computer programs to be creative. I get to combine left brain and right brain functions into one...
I vary between INTJ and INTP so I wonder... (I) 96% (T) 85% Intuitive (N) 55% Judging (J) 64% Perceiving (P) 36% Oh dear, not this one! ITNP-slow burn identity crisis These...
LOL one time when I was in 5th grade art class the teacher was droning on about instructions I had already heard before, she was being annoying so I was talking to one of my friends, and she goes...
hmm? oh yes, yes...I daydream....compare, analyze, restructure, plan, hypothesize, figure out what to do when to do it and what steps to take to open my own underwear company, go through hard times...
it really pisses me off when other other INTJ's act like they know everything-which they don't- and disrespect other intelligent people like me who believe differently than they do - especially when...
I sometimes question why I was born female. Would I be the exact same person if I was born a man? I have a female body, not that I really care which sex I am. (I'm straight by the way) If I didn't...
well, I once knew an ENFP who *tried* to be everything to everyone. Understandably, he had a business and wanted his clients to like him. however, I found it to be offputting, because he...
Here's an example of something that happened last year: I had made my computer screen orange for a few weeks at the office I worked in. I craved lots of junk food during those few weeks. seemingly...
I just want to say that I grow weary of the idea that all Intuitives trust their gut instincts. I take it to mean-and maybe I'm off-that an intuitive would have a hunch about what letters to pick...
yeah... a few years ago I read a book about HSP's (Highly sensitive people). i think I'm one. We get overwhelmed easily. I also don't know if it's related to being a 5, but I have fears of...
AH!, so the variable for introvert S types dominant function is T or F (according to the regular model). This makes sense- and your explanation fills in all the holes. Thank you very much! ...
Thank you to all who have posted thoughts on this subject, it's quite interesting to read! So here's another Q - this time for introverted Sensors: I'm reading Gifts Differing an MBTI book,...
I too think that being a follower of Yeshua has helped me work on developing my F side, and it's always good to work on inferior preferences, it helps us be more balanced people overall. I think...
Well, I believe in our Creator, and I don't think that it defies science and rational thinking in the least. It's a *snobby* attitude held by many in the atheistic and/or so-called scientific...
Hi all, I am trying to figure out my mom. I have studied the enneagram and mbti theory, and I have 2 conflicting theories and I don't know which one is more correct: The first theory I read...
oh man, I could write so much about romance... as a female, I get the impression that I'm supposed to know what romance is and stuff. When I was little, I read the fairy tales, prince finds...
I too had this problem. I KNEW there had to be a solution, so I searched till I found it, and it's called the paleo diet. Paleolithic Eating Support Recipe Archives it's awesome. I keep my weight...
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am curious to see if there is a difference in male and female INTJ's (or any other type) in which brain hemispheres are dominant/preferred. I got this info from Whole Brain Thinking Here is the...
am curious to see if there is a difference in male and female INTJ's (or any other type) in which brain hemispheres are dominant/preferred. I got this info from Whole Brain Thinking Here is the...'
