'When I read your post, I thought you were a man too... until I got to the end. Somehow the voice in my head narrated in a mans voice. Haha... strange. I have no idea.
It's only irrational to you because you don't realize the nature of his intentions. For him it's probably about getting some of his needs met by a female... that's it. So if you believe that's...
I haven't read this entire thread yet, but... It's not going to end on a happy note if you are into this guy. When he says that you are going to hate him, etc. he means that he is committed to...
I'm now over my strange case of boredom and glad that I flaked. Maybe it's intuition, but it would be better if I'd get intuitive before I agree to plans. :)
haha that is SO accurate.
What happens when it's a week later and the mood has changed? :)
Haha Nope!
Good point! I always end up having a great time and meeting all sorts of new people. I hate going back on my word too... I feel so flaky.
My fiance has been working 7 days a week. I'm sure this has something to do with it, come to think of it. :) I love to travel as well.
I don't mind being a hermit at all. But recently and for the first time that I can remember, I've actually become somewhat bored, with everything. Odd.
I've been getting worse and worse with this. I'll make plans with someone and be somewhat excited, but in a day or less I don't want to go or see the person. I don't even want to talk to them most...
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It is exhausting trying to be approachable and polite. It's trying to be something that you aren't.
accepting everything.
I am so bad that I cannot work for anyone and have to run my own business. For some reason when I first start a job, I draw to myself men that are trying to bed me. Then they see that this will...
I think I seem more collected than I am. I'm actually extremely hurt. What makes it worse is that he can't even have a conversation with me .... I think it's that ISTJ silence thing. It...
I only get my nails done for work. I get a mani and a pedi. And I always do my lips.
Actually my guy sounds even worse than hers! And he is a dumb ass too. :frustrating: I will never make this mistake again.
I find this to be very true. I would hate to be on the receiving end of my wrath when someone messes with one of my people or me. I have heard it's very scary to witness!
Me too! If they are anything like me, we should get along .... right?
wow! Sounds like us. Thanks for the post.
lol Me and my loose paper all over the place! I can't keep a notebook, I have tons of them scattered and all disorganized. It's awful. I didn't used to be so bad. I do the same thing and I...
This is what I'm confused about. I'm not sure if he feels bad about putting me through all of this. I think that he doesn't or he wouldn't have been lying to me all along. The more I think of it,...
he has that passive aggressive silent treatment down.... for sure.
I have to have most of my time alone. I don't want to talk for days or weeks at a time.
I am very much a give it all kind of person. And yes, he does have that filter of not telling everything. AND, he always says I'm a terrible liar, I cannot lie. But that was a big lie too. ...
I think I may have something like ADHD. I start to do one project and another one calls my attention and then another one and I get into a brain jumble about what to do. It can be difficult to pin...
yikes! not good news.
My bf is an ISTJ and I am an INTJ. He isn't forthcoming with his emotions and can't have a deep conversation without very long pauses ... Recently I discovered that he is a compulsive liar. ...
I think what if I were in a different stage of my life? And I am very uncomfortable with being liked for being attractive. I withdraw and never want to see the person that complimented me. ...
Being mad at myself for getting sick and missing a bunch of workouts. Very counterproductive, but true.
I'm wondering why I gave the lady on the phone SO much info.... she just froze up and couldn't handle it anyway. I'm surrounded by incompetence.
I'm laying in bed with a sore throat, wondering if the guy that got a nosebleed all over my V gave me HIV last night. :unsure:
add to list: Dysmorphia. Also, I was anorexic as a teen, after I gave up alcohol and drugs.
I was diagnosed with PTSD. I've seen many Psychiatrists, and I'm not so sure that I believe any of them. I mean, you go in, tell them what's going on, and they diagnose you. For some people, these...
Every time that I have overlooked my first intuition with anyone, I have regretted it. I try to trust, because I want to have someone in my life that I CAN trust. But then I just end up resentful...
EXACTLY! I thought that I was the ONLY one.
omg! That is ME!
I have also noticed in all of my past and present relationships that I behave emotionally like the man and in turn they behave more stereotypically female. I'm very critical and people tend to...
I didn't read this entire thread. I'm an INTJ and I sure am different than everyone. Less girly in a sense, but even more feminine in another sense. People have always told me that they have never...
Thanks Cookie Monster!
Thanks everyone. I still have to figure out the gold tipping!
Another INTJ saying HI!
Hi everyone. I just wanted to stop here before posting anywhere else and say hello. Interesting forum! :happy:'
