'Assuming I enter into a relationship with someone, I would likely never break up with her. In my past, I've always been the one who's been dumped. Sorry, it doesn't really answer your question,...
I would like to open a modern design store and gift shop/ art gallery, selling unique and useful items that add a little joy to people's lives. I think it would be really fun travelling to...
Spring bling
I've made a conscious effort to use the phrase I believe when I am confident in something, rather than I think. To me, I believe is more assured, whereas I think leaves more wiggle room.
For me, it's hard to know exactly how much background info the other person needs. Often, I just start from the beginning and give them way too much, which really distracts from the meat of the...
This is a massive problem of mine as well. You are not alone; look at the sea of self-help literature geared towards improving focus as evidence.
Ok, then don't smile with your mouth. Smile with your eyes.
I know other people mentioned it, but it's not really accurate to say Asian culture. I mean, what do you really mean? Do you mean people people from a specific place? Because Asia is huge. There's...
First, I want to tell you that I am not judging you, and I am taking the time to write this because I want to try and help you. Your quote above... do you really need advice on pulling crazy drug...
InTheMood, I am not an INFP, but I have a suggestion for you that will be true regardless of type. [I test as INTP, but I feel I am changing]. Talk to your fiance first. Ask her how she feels...
The moment I realize I'm wrong I acknowledge it instantly, and apologize for any thick-headed behavior that might have occurred.
Try keeping good posture: shoulders back; chest out, chin up. Force yourself to smile, even if you don't feel like it. Breathe deeply. Doing these physical things can influence positive...
Good good, I'm really glad to hear it. I know it's hard, and it will continue to be difficult. But, it will get better. If you need to share with your family, do so. That's what they're there...
Enigmatic Clown, are you still out there? Let us know you're ok. We care...
Sweet Sincere Honest Open about her feelings Accepts me for who I am Not afraid to tell me how I can be a better partner, in a non-critical manner Someone who cares deeply about important...
Ok, I know you feel like shit right now, but for the next week this is what you need to do: 1. Take all that unrequited love and sorrow and focus the energy into your finals. I want you to...
First off, I really feel for you man. It's late and I need to go to sleep, so I can't write much, but I'll try to write more tomorrow. I know you feel really alone, but I want you to know that...
That's a straight up bad friend, a bully, likely a narcissist. If you easily attract those types, it's because they can sense that they can bully you. Maybe they see you as an object, and not...
As my anthropology professor would always say: Human nature is emotion
This is what happened between myself and my last girlfriend. We had been hanging out with each other exclusively a bunch: watching movies, sharing meals, etc. I didn't really know what was...
I have cried about 4 times since my girlfriend broke up with me three weeks ago. I always feel better afterwards. It's not good to keep those feelings bottled up, or ignored.
Thank you, I needed to hear that. I know that people change, and grow apart. I just didn't think it would happen to us. She changed me for the better, over the years. I had hoped that we would...
Actually, it didn't hurt when I found out it was another woman. If it was another man, I'd probably be way more upset. I was still upset she left me and did it in a devastating way, but if she's...
Apology accepted :happy:
Nothing personal, but I didn't appreciate it.
With all due respect, you do not know her or her situation. I know that you're trying to give me advice, but I won't let anyone write poorly of her. For the record, we are not dating anymore, and...
The mean thing I said was the last straw that ended our first relationship. I said something like Why don't you just give up? I'll always regret saying that, and breaking her heart. All I can do...
This is very similar to what she told me. She said something about not realizing what she needed during the relationship, and forget about being able to vocalize it in a way where I would understand...
Please don't feel sad. It was painful for the first week, and especially the first 3 days. I don't want to think about how I felt too much. I think it's more painful for her than it is for me...
Please, don't feel sad for me. I already went through that enough. It's true, she was prone to depression, and I wasn't exactly the best person to help her out of it. The next woman I'm with...
I have asked her what I can work on. She gave me that vague you already are working on it spiel. She doesn't want to come off as critical, and isn't prone to giving hard answers when pressed....
I like that thinking, thanks for telling me that.
Your reply was very helpful. I can see that we don't really work out together, but we really do love each other. That's the part that hurts the most. The casual marriage proposal was pretty...
Yeah, maybe being around her isn't enough. That's denial talking.
Thank you, I am definitely making an effort to eat well, exercise, and surround myself with my family.
I don't think she cheated on me. According to her, they haven't even held hands or hugged. But perhaps she cheated on me emotionally. I should probably back off, but I'm practically addicted to...
How old is she and what fields has she tried out? What's her educational background?
Thank you all for your input, suggestions, and support. I want to reply to each and every one of you, but I need time to digest it all [the thoughts, not Thanksgiving food :happy:]
Two weeks ago, the love of my life, the one I had pledged my soul to, emailed me to tell me that our relationship was over. I was confused, shocked, and hurt. I had no idea this was coming. ...
As someone who runs a UFO group, [more like a social club that watches videos and discusses], I entertain some pretty wild theories on a regular basis. I certainly won't take someone's account of...
Personally, I like using metaphors because they can potentially transmit a lot of information in few words. I use the word potentially, because if the person on the receiving end doesn't...
I used to mostly dress for comfort, a consequence of being overweight. As I've gotten older, I realize that dressing well is not simply a statement I make about myself, but about the people around...
I think if you fix the small problems in life, the big problems will be easier to deal with. Here's a mid-90s pop culture illustration of this idea: Duckman was shown a super computer, and was...
I interact with thinkers like you on a regular basis. They often state that they wish they knew the right people to implement their ideas. Here are some links I think could help you. United...
Of course, no one would ever go forth with an idea that they believe is bad. Therefore, this point is moot. In general, there's only one way to find out if a business idea works, and that is to...
When you're debating, and in the process of making your argument, convince yourself that the opposing viewpoint is more logical and quickly change sides.
... When you've hugged a computer... [I swear, I was only checking to hear the hard drive spin!]
Growing up, I never liked receiving compliments, unless it was regarding some intellectual achievement or contribution. I often felt like I didn't deserve to receive a compliment. I attribute it to...
My dad [suspected INTP] will laugh randomly for no good reason. When it happens, I think he's thinking about something funny that happened in his past. I spaced out in the theater when watching...
Yes! Mike Judge is brilliant, isn't he?'
