'This is NOT like me at all. Just sayin'...
Hello sub-forumites, I haven't logged on in a while. Work has kept me busy among other things like Instagram and Twitter (my two new go-tos). This thread is one of the top on the list of threads so...
Pictures? Hmm.... I kinda like the anonymity. I'll think about it. I'm not that photogenic. I'm just a dude.
IMO.... douchebag alert! douchebag alert! Seriously? Find someone who is a gentleman. This guy is immature and is just playing around with people's feelings. I say stick him in the friend zone...
On the other hand, I don't like starting conversations with strangers. Lately, I've noticed strangers talking to me first. Though I default as an extrovert, I don't find it necessary to talk to...
I'm sure this goes beyond personality and there's most likely more to her story as to why she bahaves(ed) that way. Anyone can have an angry disposition regardless of their personality.
Zombie, you're one of my faves on PerC. See, you're an ESFJ and I don't dislike you. For the most part, ESFJs are peacemakers so we will default to the most practical and efficient way of...
i'm really bummed my post looks like that. and when i tried to edit it, it wouldn't save it. i gave up. sorry Hunny.
Thanks for the invite HunnyBunny. I've read ALL the post and feel caught up between you and Zombie and TheQuirkyGirl (who is ironically a dude who is former military).<br>Much like Zombie, I do...
I'm back and here are my results. First, I just want to say that I do not write like a 5 year old. Writing with a mouse with my non-dominant hand is not easy. Second, by telling me how to think...
Hahahahahahahaaa.... This ESFJ is on time for everything else except for this (and work). Jk Jk ! I've had a full weekend/week of being outside and such and wasn't able to sit in front of the...
As an ESFJ, I don't actually mind the I and T parts. What I'm challenged with are the Ns and Ps. I can deal and understand Ps. I can lean towards that when my J game isn't on. The N is a toughy...
Let me respond second on a first-hand perspective, personally speaking... What kind of careers are they drawn to? I can't speak for ALL ESFJs but I am drawn to management, right now...because...
Sounds like an ENFP I know. It may not just be exclusively ESFJs.
I think this whole thing is fascinating...in my experience. What I don't like is how people use it for evil and not for good. By good, I mean using the knowledge of other personalities to...
Wassup wassup? Let's do this interacting thing.
As an ESFJ, I do not do well with confrontation. The F gets in the way more than I like for it to. However, we are quick to observe and quick to vocalize those observations. Sometimes, it can come...
Question: What's Ne mean? (I'm not too familiar with these) I think I scored lowest on that one.
Yes. We sense/feel things that's not usual and we want to do something about it. That's all.
I like a lot of what other ESFJs have suggested. Gentleness - that's the key for anyone, really. Zombie touched a little bit on this but I want to expand just a wee bit more. Perhaps, it...
Interestingly enough, even though I'm a strong J, when it comes to my art projects, I don't necessarily finish them (unless there's a deadline). But yeah, I also start to read a couple books at a...
I find S/Js to be really really critical. I'm an SFJ so I know. But do my criticisms require immediate vocalization? Not always. Lately, I've been preferring for other people to learn from their...
I only drive if I have to. I really prefer not driving. But to answer your question... 1. Average driver 2. Not super fast, not super slow. 3. If I have to be aggressive I can be but not...
I know when... ...my friends call, text, message, email me to see if there's anything going on tonight/this weekend because this guy always has somethng going on. (I'm an ExxJ, too) ...my friends...
I (forgot this one) know I'm a J... ...when I find pulling weeds from the flower bed as time to relax right after doing an intense workout in the garage.
I know... ...because when I planned the second annual snowboarding trip this year, I made sure to give the non-judgers tasks/food duties that were common and easy to find - like eggs. ...because...
I gots this! I know I'm a Sensor when ... ...I can't stand seeing the CHECK ENGINE light on and I can't do anything about it right.now.this.very.minute.while.driving. ...love to count...
i haven't ventured out that far yet, i'll check it out sometime and let you know. any particular thread?
Don't we all..? Here's an observation. It seems like ESFJ females seem to get a lot of flack versus ESFJ males. And vice versa for ESTJ males & females. Hmm...I wonder why that is. It...
Wow! Am I in PerC? So many compliments to ESFJs...and ESFJ moms! Whoa! On behalf of those ESFJs who've left the forum because of all the negativity aimed towards us, we thank you for your kind...
Maybe he/she is not an ESFJ...or maybe he/she is stuck in adolesence...or needs to see a therapist.
Yeah, I think the SFs and NFs butt heads in the wild anyway. There will always be conflict. But I assure you, the ESFJ will process and come back and try to smooth things out. At least I do. And...
I think it's super easy to dislike someone when they can't defend themselves. I kind of disagree with the TheUltimateSquarePeg's first theory. I have my own baggage but it's nobody's business...
my sister is also a mother and an ESFJ. i hope my nephews appreciate her like you appreciate your mom. this is very encouraging. thanks!
we'll just let others rant about ESFJs ONLINE as their outlet because we realize others have a hard time doing this in real life. so, it would be interesting to see the result of their telling their...
Yeah, people tend to be real mean to ESFJs and ESTJs. I can go either F or T. Anyway, I've observed that other types tend to blame everything on their ESFJ mothers or ESTJ fathers. They'll make...
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I don't think so. I think I'm practical and a realist. I wonder, though, if your question is based on a particular relationship.
Ha! No one would pick up the mess and take no credit for it... there'd also be no such thing as time management.
I don't see this as an answer but active listening is a skill I'm learning. My ENFP friend loves to talk and sometimes that's all she needs...to talk. She will talk my ear off (God bless her) and...
I find it interesting that I don't venture out into other personality-type forums. For example, why would I go into a INTJ forum or an ENTP thread? But then I recall that it's the J in me that...
Hmm...as an ESFJ, I feel very uncomfortable talking/bragging about myself. So I'll give it a try... ...we like people and think about how we can make them better (unless they don't want to).
Hmm..Do I think people think I'm popular and do I feel popular? The word popular brings me back to high school. In that context, I am like you. I got along well with the athletes and the...
I'll bite. Plus, I haven't been on here in months! I'm an ESFJ and I can say that I am guilty of helping without being asked. It's the S/J combo that makes us so. We sense disorder and we act on...
Are you sure he's an ESFJ? Most of the guys you describe reminds me of an ISTP/INTP and are engineers. I'm an ESFJ/TJ and my fixing skills are not exemplary.
The F/J combo makes us passionate. We really need to control the J part because it's what makes us stubborn and have quick decisions. Not that it's an anger issue as much as learning how to...
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I had a smirk while reading this, which probably means I relate to such behavior. #13 is hilarious but true! I think it's true because I don't want to have to act quietly around the house. ...
Ahh...yes, I can see that by the progression of your life and shows, you would think that you are in The WannieTheSane Show. Also, no worries about my being a figment of your imagination. I could...
Okay. I checked the DVR...and it wasn't there. ha! But yes, all that to say, I remember the episode. How about Happy Endings? That show is ridiculously funny! I definitely think it's generational...'
