'Me. For me i will attempt to take interest in things outside of the ISTJ comfort zone.
Exactly how i would do it.
I jaywalk alot.
I stopped right there. It really destroys our spirit when our close friends mistreat us. If I were you, I would stop harboring hopes of a reunion.
How far ahead do you set your clocks? normally 20 mins Which do you prefer digital, analog, or other Digital Military or Standard? doesnt matter Do you always have a watch/clock on you?
How do you discipline yourselves to stay organized and committed to projects (...and people..)? people have high hopes on me and I work to maintain that high standards. How do you resist the...
win.... anyways i think one of the best thing about being a ISTJ is that we are extremely reliable.
MY plan is probably be more social i guess. Over the past few months I have been extremely moody and unapproachable.
thumbs up for caffeine
It does now that u've mentioned it :P
it did. which is why i stopped:crazy:
whats your point? Dont ask just do 'Dont question the law/system if you follow the steps, you can't go wrong more talk, less done
I once had one but my sis would look for it even after i hid it away :frustrating:. But now i prefer to talk to close ones to my emotions, works better i feel.
truth.. :frustrating:
Coffee, Friends whom I can speak to, basically just talk. I think girls call it a gossip session? when i'm alone, i just like to sit around to think/read
absolutely hilarous!:wink:
Initially I plugged a sort of time period for people to be considered close or special to me. Then I scrapped it after realising that its not the TIME, but the spectrum of events that we have...
Being new in this forum, I already can't imagine the loss of Niss. Thumbs up for an awesome father figure!
Thanks for convincing me that i'm not the only weird one :blushed:
I don't quite get the entire idea. Tell me if i got it? Freedom = Birds (as they are free to fly without boundaries of visas and permits?) :sad:
Methodical, serious, factual Outgoing, anything-goes, loafer.
second this.
getting out of my comfort zone to hang with that person and his/her clique (strangers? yikes!)
Here's one: When your statement is challenged, you instinctively refer to any related sources to validate it.
nothing wrong with consulting your father. If i were your boyfriend, I would have been disappointed that I was excluded in such a big matter. Since it requires a fair bit of financial outlay,...
Im a deadpan kind of person. I find myself restraining from joking when i'm around new people, not that I am a bad joker but i must be sure of their intellectual maturity before I start. Sucks...
actually the analysis given is quite true. Often i find myself putting my hands away when i'm in a big social group. my lecturer for public speaking rebuked me for doing so during a presentation,...
Cross my arms all the time when im getting abit annoyed when the debate is getting pointless (usually because i see my POV as superior :mellow:) More often than not I put my hands in my pocket tho.
its like you are in my head.:blushed:
tough to quantify. My current batch of close friends have known me close to 2.5 years at least, the longest being 12. If one person is capable of having non-biased, open communication with me,...
I would have just said an audible hi simply because the situation demands for it. But of course, they should already know you're not much of a talker, furthermore, it doesn't seem like you are...
Yeah I've always thought that a spiritual connection is always one in solitude. perhaps that why im not cool with church :sad:. But honestly i feel there are many new and fantastic people waiting...
Surprise surprise , im 19 and facing the same problems. but you know what? I gave up looking for what I want. Im really trying to explore into religon. Issues throughout my life have been largely...
Just curious, who in this forum is a christian convert? why did you do it? Personally I feel that I could use a purpose driven by faith but the realist side of me tells me that there are no...
Its my personal anomaly I guess. having to seek help is a sign of inability to me.
if you are competent, you dont need help echoes everytime I hit an obstacle.
Books or in the bank!
Yep. Certainly the one's recieving my praise really knows what I mean. But people who heard me giving it and doesnt know well enough? Well thats probably why i've not really given them a try,...
Small talk and flirt is simply unnatural for me. when i compliment someone's look , my friend tells me woah not bad! Sad thing is that i really meant what I say.
Myself, I usually cant study alone unless im at home. I do find myself occasionally studying better with people around me , irregardless whether they are my close friends or not. I find a need to...
Thanks for the pep talk, mate. I feel much more at ease now!
Thank you for offering your time to help
IMHO, when anyone has been told about some part of my life more than once, he/she must be a pretty big deal in my life. Heck, we refuse to talk about ourselves all the time. They are one of the...
maybe its just me then :frustrating:
If i were her dad, i would just let her have my credit card and give her a spending cap 1) No restriction to gifts 2) Easy, no frills 3) Practical of course i still feel that some quality...
the gift cert is genius. Chances are you wil never know what an ITSJ wants cause they are so private in nature, but imagine the endless potential in a simple gift card !!!
again, i stress that when both sides dont feel the same for each other, the relationship is very likely to break down. Today I just heard of a similiar ending, sigh
or it could be just that ITSJs are cruelly blunt :frustrating:
agreed. a few more... ITSJs love to keep things simple. If i could compress 50 sentences into 1, I will. ITSJs cant write narrative, at least for me
This. What a brillant way to put whats meant to be, will be.'
